I totally understand! I am no longer having those dreams now they are just all over the place. Very vivid and random! But I hear that is normal as well. Seems like everything is "normal" when it comes to pregnancy.
I feel the same as what you are feeling... IM so scared to do anything because of some pink coloured CM and am to scared to push it. The dreams i have been having are sexual and i feel like its teasing me into doing it. lol im just so glad hubby understands that untill i see a heart beat id prefrer not to do anything incase of more spotting.. Im 6 weeks and 2 days today and with a previous missed miscarriage i just keep thinking it will happen again, so untill then hubby has to take care of himself lol.
it doesn't hurt to wait until you are 12 weeks. I had a miscarriage last year, so my husband & I had the same fears. We waited until we saw a heartbeat, but still taking things slow.
I do remember when I was pregnant with my daughter (5 years ago) that when I had an orgasm, I also had contractions. I think that feeling would be scary in early pregnancy.... just something to keep in mind.
I think I decided to wait until this trimester is over. :-) It's only 4 more weeks......right?!
lol cant tell you the last time we had sex, i have been on crinone so thats the only thing going in there!!!! My poor husband he will have to hang in there for 5 more weeks. Its okay its all worth the wait
Hey I havent had sex since last week as I had some spotting ... it started to clear since Monday and today it seems to be gone! I think you should do what makes you comfortable ..
I have to say with my first baby I didn't have sex the whole first trimester and I didn't have any spotting was just a worry wart. This pregnancy I guess me and dh are more comfortable about it so we have had sex since finding out. I would say do what makes you comfortable!
I was scared with my first one too...and I had to wait 'til almost 9 weeks as well for my first appointment. But, don't worry, you can't make it fall out w/ sex...even my doctor recommended sex and exercise. ;-) Though, I completely understand waiting!
I too haven't had sex since I found out I was pregnant almost two weeks ago and I'm scared I will jossel the baby out. I know that sounds crazy but I can't have my first U/S until I'm 8-9 weeks which is another 2 weeks and so I am scared to cause anything badto happen. Haven't even been able to see my Dr. yet. I am almost 6 weeks. Good luck. I think I will wait till I see my Dr.
Thanks guys! The doc told me it was safe also, I guess I'm just nervous. I think I'll feel better after the next u/s.
My doctor told me it's safe too, but we have only done it once since finding out I was pregnant, mostly because I feel nauseated all the time and don't want to get sick in the middle of it! LOL
I have been having sex since we knew there was a heartbeat. The doctor told me that it is perfectly safe. It's just up to you when you feel ready. X
I think you have to do what's comfortable for you. If you've had a previous miscarriage then it's not going to hurt to wait until your 12 weeks. Personally I haven't had sex either and now with the added complications I dare not!