I may break up with my SO-venting, sad. need positive advice

[QueSorpresa]

I'm just so upset but I feel this relationship is not working. He tells me I am the source of all our problems and that I need to fix them, that he is done feeling with my defensiveness. It just ridiculous for him to say that and not take any responsibility for his part. He has never been the caring type and always about what benefit is he getting from the relationship....I'm almost 10 weeks pregnant sure early/mid June and we have been arguing so much. I cry when we argue and he just ignores me when all I want is for him to comfort me....I never imagined I may end up having to do this alone. I need some positive words =(

[lovemeX3]

I'm sorry to hear that and I hope everything works out but if he don't care about you now ,bringing this baby into his life is not going to change his mind and will make it harder on you and the baby do what is best for the baby for that is what really matter and try not to stress to much guys are a**ho**s most the time but some women get lucky and get a great man . you can do this alone if need be . good luck and be happy your having a beautiful baby in the future

[ShenCurti]

If you have to do it alone. Hang in there. We women are strong we can handle anything better than a man and I promise he will be the one suffering in the end. Stay positive.

[happiMom87]

Week counselling.. if he won't go get it for yourself.. it will help. Good luck. Hang in there. Things will always get better.

[Raspberry504]

I actually broke up with my bf of 7 years  before I found out I was pregnant he kept coming home drunk and treating me bad and I had warmed him if he did it one more time that I was done. And sure enough he did it again then I found out 2 days later he had cheated on me then I found evidence in our home that he had relapsed on suboxone. It had been tough he wants me back and is fighting so b we can be a family but I just can't look Past these things.  And it breaks my heart for our child I am currently 7 weeks 2 days

[sew_cute]

I agree^^^^ Hang in there and hopefully you guys will meet in the middle. Comprimises will need to be made on both parts for the sake of the baby and your health, relationship,  and sanity. Good luck! Stay positive.

[AlwaysBHisLady]

Try and remain calm during this time. You don't want to over tax yourself as your baby needs You to be in a good frame of mind. Everything will work out the way it should, for the best. Over stressing yourself now, is not good. Also, you don't want to make decisions when your mind frame is anxious, afraid,or worried. This is a very special time for you. Try to enjoy it.