So true,a big part of me wants to just stay pregnant coz when my baby is born ill only get to hold her for a few minutes before she will be whisked away to another nearby hospital and will need open heart surgery..even though the success rate of her surgery is over 99% its still so scary and its gonna kill me not being able to go with her and comfort her but as long as she will be ok is the main thing and im so thankful we know about now and everything is planned and arranged for her birth...knowing your having a healthy baby is such a huge thing and dont take it for granted..good luck with pregnancies and enjoy try enjoy it :)
Good luck dear. My friend had a baby two years ago that needed open heart surgery right away. The little girl is as happy and healthy as any two year old now :) I am sure that would be an aweful thing to have to do give up your baby, even if its for the best. Thoughts are with you.