It's Too Much

[ChiPipes22]

Ok lafies, I'm really hoping someone has an answer or advise (that works) because I'm at the end of my rope emotionally here. I understand that blood engorgement in the pelvic region is normal and expected during pregnancy, but my man and I can't even have sex anymore. I'm over sensitive to any kind of touch, even cleaning after a potty break, I already have tons of micro tears that hurt, and penetration is uncomfortable and sometimes even painful. I'm so swollen that my labia don't even sit properly anymore. I can't handle seeing my man be deprived like this anymore and it's gotten to the point where he doesn't even try anymore. None of my friends have ever had something like this, in fact, everyone says that sex is 100 times better. Ive brought it up to my doctor once before but they said not to worry before i could even fully explain. I'm almost 34 weeks and I cant handle the emotional stress of not having sex anymore.

[MarieK0315]

I'm 34+3 and I haven't had anything at all with my husband during the whole eight months. For some reason when we tried I was somehow closed. Your probably not the only one. I guess pregnancy is different in all of us.

[klipscomb]

The only thing that's sensitive for me Is my cervix.  I'm 35 weeks.

[klipscomb]

It sounds like you could have bacterial vaganosis.  I've had it 4 times this pregnancy and I get those symptoms.  Get tested it's an easy fix.

[nicolehamilton0322]

Try anal it hurts a little at first but then feels amazing..

[charliegirl8]

I feel you there .... I've had sex maybe 5 times in the past 9 months :( i feel really bad for my man but he tries to understand it's just not comfertable for me.... I try to make it up to him in other ways ;)