Need some advice ....

[Gabilovee12]

Soo im going to try and make this as simple as possible basically i was living with my bf and his parents when i got pregnant after almost 7 months i got in a huge fight with his mom decided it was to much stress to deal with her bs and raising his 7 year old daughter who is nothing but a brat to me so i moved back in with my mom and dad ....my parents look out for me alot amd dont want me going over to his house as long as his mom still lives under the same roof as him(i agree 100%) they told me if he wants to see me and our unborn baby whos due in march he needs to come over to my house ....well tonight i was arguing with him about me not going over to his house when the baby is born and he disagrees i dont want to go without his mom apologizing to me first about treating me like crap throuout my whole pregnancy bringing extra stresses that i didnt need (she lied about me to him and always made me feel like crap i was never comfertable being around her without him being there) he says weather she does or doesnt apologize i will eventually need to go over to his house bcuz his family (sisters included) will want to meet our new baby i really dont feel comfertable bringing my son around them when his sisters also made my life a living hell ...i just need some opinions i dont want to keep my son away from his dads family but they didnt put my son first when i went through alot of emotional distresa during my preganancy

[Amaya2016]

I agree, with above. If they ever Sant to see you and you agree they can come to you but they must respect you or be asked to leave.

[Flickan]

*Control

[Flickan]

No, you're not...it's part if their need for control. My guess is they drive you nuts because you won't let them Co troll you....

[Gabilovee12]

Thank you so much it reassures my decision and made me feel like im not crazy

[Flickan]

You have every right to stay safe and sane....and if that means setting a boundary than so be it. Your concern is for yourself and your child first and foremost.  Don't let them bully their way through your boundary.  It's there for a reason. You have the power and they dont like it is my opinion based on what you have shared. In time those boundaries may change, for now....it's set. You are tye child's mother and deserve to protect that child from negative and/or hurtful people until you feel it's safe enough for your child. I get it, and going through something similar (yet different) with my father in law.