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12 wks finally!!

Is anyone else in the same time frame? Do you feel a sense of relief now? I kinda do. I don't know why but my first pregnancy I wasn't scared at all for anything bad to happen but this time I am. I was under a lot more stress with my first too. I was married to a very mean man. This time the babies father is a good guy, I don't really have much going on and all seems to be going well but I am so scared something is gonna go bad this time. its almost making it difficult to bond and attach myself to this baby. when I heard the heart beat I felt excitement and stuff but I just feel emotionally further away from my baby this time. Anyone with multiple babies ever feel this way before? Is this gonna mean I won't bond with this baby at all? I'm really worried about this.
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Baby looked great!  Placenta is in the back n away from the fibroid. She said it was all good placement.  A fibroid is a uterine benign tumor.  It won't bother the baby. Some women may need more rest time but others are fine.
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Baby looked great!  Placenta is in the back n away from the fibroid. She said it was all good placement.  A fibroid is a uterine benign tumor.  It won't bother the baby. Some women may need more rest time but others are fine.
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Bla-k your on the same time line as me! that's awesome.. race ya to the finish line lol.
mrskorn- well a relief for a singleton I'm sure. The fibroid, is that something to worry about or will ya still have a healthy pregnancy just a little extra in the package? I don't know anything about them so I'm curious. Baby looked good in u/s?
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So I had the ultrasound n it is just one baby. I am big because I have a 7 cm fibroid.  It's kind of a relief its not twins cuz I really want a midwife and with twins that wouldn't happen in fl.  
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4154489 tn?1359728067
I hit my twelve week mark on Tuesday!!  I'm so excited but a little stressed I out at the same time.. Like yours, my pregnancy was also 100% unplanned.. But I'm happy and excited still :)
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715068 tn?1392933532
We have had MANY losses so we're waiting as long as possible to tell people.  We're not sure when we may start telling ppl.
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That's a great bday gift! I told peoplewhen I felt like it lol.. everyone knew by the time I was six weeks and I found out when I was 3 1/2 wks.
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715068 tn?1392933532
I will be 12 weeks in 2.5 weeks.....on my birthday!!!  I'm thinking we may tell people around that time.
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Thanks ladies! I'm glad I'm not the only one. Mrskorn good luck with your u/s keep me updated on if there's a single or doubles in there!! that's exciting! H&H 9 mo girl.. we and our babies deserve it.

PS I actually took some time today and talked to my baby and did a little bonding. it made me feel pretty peaceful and amazing. I love my little "lime" so much!
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I will be 12 weeks tomorrow!!! So excited that I don't feel stressed anymore and can actually be excited!  I have been thru 3 MCs so to make it this far is a miracle to me. I get my first ultrassound on Thursday to find out how many there r.....I am pretty big already n thinking it may be twins.  
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3208100 tn?1346945010
we are at 12w5d i am so ready for the 2nd trimester and to put my mind at rest i am worried all the time every little thing
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I have been stressed too. I never felt like this last time.  I'm 12 weeks today :).
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