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Fiance not happy

I'm curious ladies. I'm just a extra fertile girl, I swear when I have 1 baby I end up preg go with another. I recently found out I'm pregnant again and my fiance is not happy. He wants me to get an abortion which I just can't do again (I had one in April 2014 because my last baby was just 5 months). I told him I'm having this baby and he is not a happy camper. He doesnt want anymore right now since our last 2 are only 16 months apart.Anyone been through this and know how I can handle this situation with out it breaking up my family.
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You will regret having an abortion way more than keeping your baby. I still regret my abortion which was 10 years ago! Sit down and explain to him you can't go through that experience again, hopefully he will come round!  Good luck! X
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Thanks ladies,  I think he gets the message now that we are keeping this blessing. I couldn't imagine going through another abortion,  it took such an emotional toll on me which he will never understand.
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Don't do it. A baby is a pregnancy and I don't believe on abortions. I'm pregnant with my first but I'm actually hoping to have all my kids close. I want to get pregnant maybe 3 months after I give birth. Nothing better than the siblings growing up together close in age. It's my dream
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I msged you.
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Im going threw it to. my man almost left me bc im keeping the baby):
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Don't do It I Had One Last Year Because My FiancĂ©  But Like They Said If He Don't Like It Have Safe Sex. Have It Sweetie Im Having My First But Congrats, And I Hope It Works Out For You.
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Ksweet90, mommyoftwo_2015, shy

Thank you so much ladies!
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Don't get an abortion, that baby was meant to be here. Tell him to get used to it. Lol my two sons were born 10 months apart, my ex husband wasn't to happy and wanted me to get an abortion. I was tempted but now regret ever thinking about it. They are a true blessing. Expecting baby #3 now and couldn't be any happier
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Have the baby and please no abortions.  I had a friend who had that problem with her fiance and had multiple abortions but she doesn't have any kids and now that she wants one she hasn't been able to get pregnant for years. Maybe its punishment idk. But seriously a child is a blessing and if ur fiance doesn't want more then use protection but sweetie keep the baby. God bless!
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Oh my gosh i am so jealous! Congratulations hun! I am so happy for you. Have the baby! I tried for years to have a baby after my first, and 6 & a half years later, i just found out i am expecting! Just tell him you will have this one & in the near future if he doesn't want any more babies, he should have 'safe' sex :) Goodluck hun.
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