m i tired n sensitive or is my partner is just being a ****

[cstephie]

i know being tired is part of the deal esp at 35weeks. but i am all passive aggressive with my partner, because he said, i should reply a friend whos coming to visit us a day before my birthday (july)which sounds to me like he just said I should arrange my own birthday.

gees..... i don't see why he can arrange his sisters and mothers birthdays n have been saying for 2 years now, that my big 30th keeps getting hijacked by lifestages n he makes this sweeping statement.

FUCKKKKKKK and im so tired n i need to pee and and and.....

[LaurenC86]

Sounds like you're being sensitive to me too. And like the other ladies said once you have your baby you probably won't care at all about the bday stuff... I don't see why it would be expected for him to plan it anyway, he should do a little something special for you like a nice dinner or something but to plan a party for you is a lot to expect. Good luck!! Hope you start feeling better and happy early bday!!

[faithanduriah]

My baby is due May 12th and my 20th birthday is May 31st and I don't really care about anyone making a fuss over it because I'm getting the best birthday present early!  (: I'm pretty sure I still won't want to see friends or have anyone over at that point either (Mamabear mode kicked in early)

[lorinewmum]

Try not to get annoyed by stuff your partner says. At the end you will be having a month old baby and probably not in the mood for people around anyway. If it comes down to it, arrange your own 'party'. Keep it low key and relaxed. Buy some balloons, have cake and make sure everyone knows its your birthday. You don't have to go overboard, just rave about the fact that you're having your birthday and you have your baby with you to celebrate it with you.

[b4b]

I'm not sure I would be upset about that. My birthday is in July also and I fully intend to still be in the leave me and my baby alone stage.

[CheyenneDayle1234567890]

I honestly think your just being sensitive but again i dont know the tone used or the situation. For me this yr i dont want a birthday party my baby shower is 2 days before and 2 weeks after baby will be born i dont want a bunch of people around lol didnt even want my baby showrr but my baby is being baptised that day so figured just put it together