I will be 11 weeks pregnant on May 5 (2 days from now) and my mom is pressuring me to tell the whole family. When I say whole family, I mean tell my grandmother who will be on the phone within the hour and tell my 30+ relatives spread all over the country. I have an OB appointment on May 5 as well and I told her that if everything looked good that I'd tell my grandmother on Mothers Day (May 9). I just feel like it's still so early. I will be about 11.5 weeks along. I didn't want to tell anyone until I was 14 weeks, but if I don't tell then my mom will and ruin it for me. She's really pushy and it's making me regret telling her at all.
This is my first pregnancy and I'm under a lot of stress at school - I'm a PhD student at a critical time in my research. I know I should not be afraid of miscarrying because that's bad karma or whatever, but I'm just so nervous for everyone to know. With that said, I'm starting to show so I don't know how much longer I can keep it a secret anyway. What do you guys think? Is it still too early to tell everyone? Should I go for it?