Feeling upset :(

[gavinsmommy111015]

I know this isn't really pregnancy related , but I'm just wondering how many people are in my situation . And how yall cope with it. My now ex boyfriend / father of my child said he's moving to Montana (super far away from here ) after we got into a fight because he's been out at his friends house all day and lied to me where he was and has been drinking (he does all of this often expect lying where he's at). And while I was cleaning and at the house all day he's been at his friends house doing all of that. When I knocked on the door it sounded like there was girls in there . I may be wrong though . I know for sure his friends wife is there but sounded like more than one girl. We've been rocky lately because all he ever does is play Xbox. Never wants to go anywhere hardly and I literally have to try to force him to go somewhere . But when I'm not around he is always going to that friends house . And doesn't wanna go to that friends house when I want to. It all just ***** . I'm due 7 weeks and this is happening . :(

[gavinsmommy111015]

Thank you everyone ! It's been hard , but getting easier . He still hasn't tried talking to me since he left and ignored me when I tried . Goes to show how he really feels

[Jimenez5]

Im sorry your going through this,  it's hard especially pregnant.  But it maybe for the best as much as it hurts.  I kinda wish I followed my own advice many years ago. If he acts like that now he probably won't change when the baby comes and it will be even harder to leave him cause you don't want to be alone with a child so you try to make it work but no matter what things stay the same or get worse.  You have time to adjust before your little guy comes and plan your next move.  Stay strong sweetie!! Sry I've been in a similar situation for 5 yrs, and we have soon to be 4 kids. And we're married.

[26_FtM]

Be strong mama ...you will get thru this...what is his reason for leaving tho? Because seems like was the one in the wrong from to began with

[gavinsmommy111015]

Thank you . I don't see it really getting better for us . He's already packed for tomorrow and leaving early when he wakes up. And to be left is one thing , but 7 weeks before my due date is so wrong . I'm having a hard time with it . I can't and probably will never understand how someone could up and walk out. But I'll get through it . My son has been my strength . I have to keep going for him

[26_FtM]

I'm sorry you're going thru this and wish and hope things will get better for u and your significant other ...feel better soon mommy ..and hope he gets his act together because things seem really suspicious from what I've read in your post ...u have the right to be upset