Evening Primrose comes in a capsule... if you want to massage with it you just cut them open I suppose. I haven't decided whether I really want to rub oil down there haha. Maybe if I go overdue I guess I could try some of that.
Heather- haha toothpaste... you just ruined my birth plan. Now I'll be trying not to focus on toothpaste when I'm "oozing" and now pushing.
Alaysha- you must be one of them lucky ones like my sister where things just go super fast. She tore on her first then got a "paper cut" on her second and both labors were about 5 hours. BUT both were inductions as well.
Thanks that's some really cool information, I'll definitely look into getting some of the EPO oil, hopefully I can find some! You know where to get it?? As for the tea, I have been wanting to get some anyway... so I'm gonna start drinking that very soon!
As for the massage, I'm not sure about that... I think I might feel kinda weird or something... my doctor actually did that for me the day I was in labor... he massaged the perineum to prevent tearing... I still tore a little big but just a very small tear.
Lol as much as I would try to "ooze" my baby out to prevent stitches last time everything moved so fast and pushing felt so good that when they told me to push I had no other thought than that. In fact I think I actually told the nurse at one point that I would "like to push now".
LOL that just made me think of it as squeezing toothpaste out of a tube!
I haven't done any massaging yet, but I plan to eventually. Most women tear because they make you push so fast in the hospital. Midwives will tell you not to try to push your baby out, but to "ooze" your baby out. Another good tip to keep in mind!
I did this massage before I hAd my daughter it didn't not ease anything for me lol I will try the tea
You know, the massage I was total going to mention as well! My midwife just gave me a hand out on how to do it, I was also wondering if anyone had done that before. I'm going to try it as I tore a bit last pregnancy.
Thanks!! That's great info! Has anyone done the messaging? I wanted to start doing that because it sounds really important.