ill be leaving the group

[tiffh]

Hey Girls, just when it seems i get to know u i now get to leave.  i had a few ealier posts, mostly being concerned about not hearing heartbeat, well i wasnt nuts,  deep down i knew something was wrong.. after 4 doctors telling me i was a silly girl and everything was fine,, i finally found one who believed me when i said something wasnt right. ultrasound confirmed i was right. missed miscarige..  but although we are heartbroken, i know realise that insticts are amazing, no matter what any doctors says,,  we know are bodys better than anyone... had a d and c friday. pretty scary, but i do feel a sence of relief, now i know i wasnt crazy.. its really brought me and dh closer. and we are very excited to start trying again..  if anyone has any experience with d and cs message  me please, trying to find someone i could ask a few  questions too, as i didnt get alot of info at hospital... i am truley wishing all of u the best in your pregnancy.. ill just be a few month behind.. dh says we are going for twins this time..lol.. be of luck ladies..

[szw2008]

I am so sorry for your loss. Nothing anyone says will take that pain away. I had a D&C on December 23rd and for me the only way to move on was to start trying again. We were pregnant only a few weeks after the D&C. If you feel ready to start trying by all means do it, just make sure your DH knows to be easy with you. If you have any questions feel free to ask anything. I understand how traumatic it can be. One day you are eating healthily for two and the next you can't stand the thought of eating. You will get through it and go on to have a healthy little baby. My prayers are with you. Take care.

[Heatherm4]

Aw hun....I'm so sorry for your loss. Yes trusting your instincts is the best way to go. I'm surprised no one checked earlier for you after mentioning it. You have a good attitude about it though! Stay strong and hope you will not be too far behind us!!

[Tiffiepooh]

Well I am sorry that you have to leave our group and I am sorry for your loss. Its stupid that the four doctors didnt believe you. I hope that you and your lovely DH get the two little blessings you want and deserve. I am praying you get a BFP and all is well. Let us know what happens.

[Nikkij6577]

Hi Tiffh, I am soooo sorry you are going through this.  My heart is with you and your family and I keeping you in my prayers.  I had a D and C on Nov. 20th.  After learning that the baby stop developing at 6 1/2 weeks.  I had the D and C and when I woke up I felt ok.  I bled for a few days.  I one pain med on one day.  I was sore when I woke up and my throat was hurting from the tube.  DH and I had sex a week after I stop bleeding.  My doc told me that I could start back when I wanted to.  I got pregnant 3 months later.  Just make sure you get alot of rest and don't do too much.  Please message me if you need more information.  I will be happy to answer anything you like.  I also posted this in the miscarriage forum