Aa
Aa
A
A
A
Close
Avatar universal

Just to vent

Sorry but I have no one to talk to and about to lose it I am 27 years old and 35 weeks pregnant I have 2 girls 9 and 7 my now boyfriend of 4 years is not my girls dad but has taken them as his own  he is a hard worker and about to become a daddy to another little girl (that is his ) so good man but I get no emotional support from him I have not asked for much but get nothing  I ask for little things like a back rub never got one I asked for some donuts  never got any and he was out he could have stopped I cook and take his food to him  and drink  and clean I wash clothes and dishes I walk the dog ( the dog pulls hard) i have rubbed his feet when they hurt him i have rubbed his back when he asked I try not to complain maybe I'm overreacting but I started to think what is it going to be like after the baby comes sorry so it's so long
4 Responses
Sort by: Helpful Oldest Newest
Avatar universal
Sorry girls now I don't feel like I'm overreacting men are such but faces sometimes  
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
I understand , if men had to carry babies they wouldnt be able to handle it like us . They can be ignorant and selfish , 8 more weeks youre almost there ! I have 5 1/2 more weeks. We have to face the facts , sometimes we can express how we feel but its a total waste of time
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
I am sorry but need to admit that seeing your post actually makes me feel little better that i am not the only one. WhT hurts me the most is that my husband was loving and caring for the first six months of my pregnancy. He loved helping me with the chores, served me breakfast in the bed.

Ever since my mother in law has come, he has changed totally. Sometimes i feel like i dont know this person at all. Mother and son no one helps me with anything. Leave alone emotional support. I just feel left out in my own house. Today finally i told him that his behaviour is upsetting me. And all i get to hear from him is .."you deserve this.." . I am so so heart broken right now.. just cannot take this anymore. Not sure how i would take all this for another 8 weeks till i meet my baby. Sorry for the long post. Just needed to vent somewhere..
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
I dont feel like I get any emotional support from my man either its pretty frustrating , he takes are of everything financially am helps with our other two kids but sometimes I wish hed be more understanding about my back pains and everything else that bothers me , he just tells me I complain too much
Helpful - 0
Have an Answer?

You are reading content posted in the Pregnancy: Oct 2015 Babies Community

Didn't find the answer you were looking for?
Ask a question
Popular Resources
Get information and tips on how to help you choose the right place to deliver your baby.
Get the facts on how twins and multiples are formed and your chance of carrying more than one baby at a time.
Learn about the risks and benefits of circumcision.
What to expect during the first hours after delivery.
Learn about early screening and test options for your pregnancy.
Learn about testing and treatment for GBS bacterium.