I miss home but... pls help

[Octmommy2015]

I am 11weeks and I am over a thousand miles from home and really home sick. My boyfriend and I aren't doing well, it's not fighting but just like the relationship isn't really there, I moved out here to be with him (we were high school sweethearts years ago) and I ended up pregnant pretty quickly, unplanned.  He has two other kids but I do more to take care of them when he has them when he does and it makes me concerned about how he'd be with our baby. He won't get a job cause he doesn't want to but his kids in daycare (1yr old twins) and it's got me really stressed. Idk what to do but the thought of moving home makes me feel guilty cause I'd be taking this baby away from him if I do... I really need advice please.

[Deekie]

I'f he doesn't even do much for his kids now another one isn't going to change that I'd say move back home and if he wants anything to do with the baby he can make the effort . There's no point in more or less being a mum to 4 kids when three of them aren't yours and he won't get a job it's pathetic and sounds like he needs to grow up.If you stay you will be unhappy and kids are pretty switched on and can feel your emotions so there's no point in being sad or unhappy just so you can give him the chance

[Shisha21]

The best thing to do is to worry about you and your baby. So if moving back home with family and friends that make u happy then do so.  Stress is really bad for the baby and you.  Like she said if he serious about you and the baby he will find his way to where you live.  Taking on other responsibilities that a tent by ours while pregnant is too much. Hope everything works out.

[Octmommy2015]

Even if he wanted to moving out there isn't something he can do he is stuck where we are, and it makes me feel stuck too. How am I supposed to just up and go? I want to but I don't want to feel like a b****