heartbroken......

[anita_p_]

I love my baby's father I love him with all my heart but we have been arguing so much these past few months nd he recently told mi he isn't happy with mi but he doesn't want to break up bc we r having a baby
Im heartbroken bc I love him nd honestly I don't want to end things with him qe have been through so much my family never liked him nd I fought for our relationship but after qhat he said I feel silly nd a bit used
His only reason for being with mi is bc we r having a baby nd that hurts bc of how much I love him
What should I do?  

[Roxxxy915]

Im pregnant w.the 3rd. & this pregnancy has been easy just rough on the hole arguing/fighting thing w.my husband. & been xtremely crazy , hormones have tooken control & there r times when idk what to do & dnt see a point of trying anymore idk we'll see what happens? Most of the time im confused on what to do but iguess ill leave it in God's hands.

[anita_p_]

Thank you ladies for ur advice I guess I will wait nd see how things go

[KandisW]

Before I got pregnant my fiance and I never fought, I mean of course we bickered, had our little arguments as does everyone in any relationship. But we'd never fought, never yelled. I don't know what it is, but after a while that started to change after I got pregnant. Honestly it mostly has been me, in that things that didn't use to bother me, do bother me now. In the past couple months we've been fighting pretty bad, I even tried to take some time away so we could cool off and have a little space from each other for a while, I stayed with my parents for almost a week. It didn't really help all that much expect in that it gave me a bit of a break from the extreme stress. Which is a good thing. And since I become back we have been tying to make things better. All I can say is that I think a lot of people have this problem. I think it's a lot to do with hormones, and emotions, not just yours but the father's as well. You have to realize this all new to him too, it's all very new and very scary for both, and with that comes stress. And stress can add to more stress and things can blow up a lot easier. My best advice would be, communicate with each other. Commnicate and agree on something right now. Agree to wait until after the baby is born, and if after maybe 6 months, more or less depending on how bad off you guys are, if you guys are still not happy and still always fighting, then agree to split up. As painful as that is, especially when you love someone so much, you have to think abut your baby too. Babies can't be raised in a negative environment, it's unhealthy. And it can be scarring for a child to grow up with parents who fight all the time and are unhappy. Little kids especially pick up on all the little negative emotions you both feel, and it affects them more than you would think.

[janellemassy]

Me n my bf have been together for 4 yrs and i can honestly say tht we nvr fought. We bickered but nvr once did it turn into a full on fight. After i got pregnant we started fighting just abt every night i would cry ever night before bed. Its better now we are back to just our random bickering bc we both realized most of what we were fighting abt was pointless. I blame my hormones alott. Mayb u should sit down together and think abt wat u are actually fighting abt and decide how much those arguments are affecting ur relationship.

[anita_p_]

Im 37 weeks Nd I have tried but idk what he wants from me

[zareenawifey]

If you aren't too far along maybe some time apart could help. Not to see other people!! But just to get some space. Or maybe a baby moon together. A romantic trip or even just a night out.