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Am I trippin???

So the guy I'm pregnant for I am now back to living with him, I work third shift, he makes his own money at home. Now, we are working on the relationship part but it's still in progress, we both really love each other and are trying to prove to each other we can work things out to be together. He just told me now when I get off work that one of his friends Kristen, which is a female obviously will be moving in with us at any time now. Her living here will help him withholds and such and a vehicle since we do not have one. She is a young attractive female in which he has told me himself in the past he would screw if she ever let him, I haven't said a word yet to him about how upset this has me becausehonestly I want to explode.!!!!! I want to break down crying at this point but I refuse/to let him do that to me. Opinions anyone???
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Oh no that's respectful !! Over my dead body the day my mans tries to pull something like that on me u better him let him know that u don't agree
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But he doesn't even respect you . He didn't ask you if could move in and as the woman he wants to be with and have a child he should have had sat you and her down so that you alcould have this decision. My man and I have a curfew on our phones and friends out of love and respect. When 9 comes all friends are gone and phones put away .
You need to speak with him and let him know your thoughts and concerns about her . If you don't you will regret not saying anything.
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Iagree w.the cmnt above ^
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I don't think that's okay at all. First off yall are about to have a baby, yall don't need any outsiders, unless immediately family, in the household with yall. Secondly even if yall weren't expecting, there's no reason for that girl to move in. Yall have been doing just fine and managing without her, what the hell is her purpose. Don't be crazy and let her move in, that's a recipe for disaster!
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Did I mention that I work third shift so from midnight to eight in the morning she would be here alone with him, he always days I'm way too jealous, but I just don't know right now, I'm questioning our entire relationship at this point, cuz how would he like it if I had a guy friend of mine stay while he was working eight hours a day ya know??
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