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I seriously need to get over this and stop crying!

I'm so sick of crying every single day cause my boyfriend treats me so badly. I need to suck it up, leave him and stop crying! I need some encouraging words please!
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2080231 tn?1444933585
Why do you need to suck it up if he's mistreating you? Why not recognize that you deserve better? Unless you mean that hormones are making you overly sensitive and he isn't really treating you poorly, but you feel that way because of them?
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Awww you really need to think about how important your happiness is! Life is short and this should be the most happy time of your life, to be expecting a little miracle :-) It makes me sad to think of you being with someone who doesn't care enough to be loving and encouraging especially at this time... Do this for you and your baby, get away from him and surround yourself with friends and family who love you. I bet you'll feel a million times better once you let go of this heavy baggage.  You know what to do! Life is too good to let someone bring you down ;-)
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It also might be the pregnancy hormones making it worse your very emotional at this point what I would do I mean I did I beat him up slapped him and hit him with a stick and yelled at him and boy it help are situation well I think talk to him try to nock some sense into him if it doesn't work well its time to move on I think
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You have to think about your baby, if hes mistreating u, he will mistreat ur baby also. Its not about u anymore its about the lil one thats in ur tummy also.
The sperm donor for my lil one found out that he dislocated his first childs arm at 4 months old, and smacked his wife around when she was pregnant. And i found out he was using drugs, i left him at 8 weeks pregnant, and im 18 weeks now and he hasnt made no effort to see how i or my baby was doing, after i broke it off with him he said meanful things that if we arent together that i ahould abort and i dont go for that! I was pissed. But i was looking out for the best interest of my baby. And that was for him not being involved. i coped with being a single mommy and doing it all on my own. Im still gettingused to the fact, but with suportive family is all u need.
So its not just about u anymore. U have someone else to look after to. Yeah  you may be crying b/c hormones do that, but in the long run is it going to be better without him? Think about that.
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It's not the hormones making me feel this way.. He's awful to me. He was awful to me before I got pregnant and right as I was about to break it off with him, I found out and I've tried everything to make a family with him. He kicks me out every other day and I can't take it anymore.
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2080231 tn?1444933585
If that's the case then you're better off not being together. Of course you want to try to make it work, but you can only endure so much until you need to realize that sometimes having a child with someone is not enough of a reason to stay together.
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You are the only one who can put a stop to it...everyone can tell you anything a million times and still will be only up to you to  value and love yourself enough that you won't allow someone like him make you miserable.
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I broke up with my bf/fiancé 5 days before I found out I was pregnant. I tried to see if it would work after being pregnant but it wasn't a life I wanted. I'm now 32 weeks and he still wants to marry me and I've told him no. I know what I deserve in my life and know he can't give it to me.
You are worth so much more than he treats you and you can do amazing things without having him in your life you just have to believe in yourself. Having someone that kicks you out at all while pregnant isn't worth trying for. It won't get better when your baby is here it will only get harder and worse.
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