Babysitting-Ftm

[AprilBabe26]

I'm already being harassed by the mil to let her watch the baby. I'm 29 weeks with my first & as I've posted before, she's not mentally stable. I just simply said I'm going to be home with baby for quite a while & since she's my first I'll be all nerves to leave her anywhere. My husband & I have already discussed this & he agrees her & her place are not an environment for a child. Just not safe. I'm so not looking forward to dealing with her when my baby comes, stresses me out. Hopefully my husband will deal with the babysitting issue when it comes, she's absolutely adamant about it. Ugh... :(

[Maryrose519]

If you gotta be a b*tch, go for it.. Set ground rules.. I know of some people that have said, no visitors at all and we will let you know when it is a good time.. I've had people just come right on over without calling, I even look out of the window and never open the door.. I should only say it once lol They need to respect you. I hope you find the courage.. Those few weeks are very precious.. Especially when its your first..

[AprilBabe26]

Thanks. Its just so stressful dealing with this woman. I like my space & I'm really dreading all the attention a baby brings. I don't want a bunch of visitors & I hate when people just show up at my house which I know a lot of them will do! Husband doesn't get it at all & he doesn't have to deal with it he'll be at work!

[Maryrose519]

Just tell her like it is.. I know its hard and all but if you give in and something happens you will regret it.. Its your baby and you know what's best

[MommyMom2014]

You can be equally adamant about not letting her. It will probably be tiring, but your baby's safety is more important than your mil's feelings. Hang in there!