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being threatendd....

My childs dad swears my baby isnt his becuz we broke up when i was 10 weeks along... But we already knew i was pregnant knew how far i was and had the first ultra sound. He didnt deny it till his mom got oitta jail two weeks ago.she txtd me threatening me so i told her i got a no contac order, which legally i cant do, unfortunately. Now shes texting me pretending to be his femalr friend he stayed eith last night threatening to whoop my @$$ . Mind u hes bern tryin to get bavk with me and be therre and she conpletely ruins it every timme. Legally i can not do crap but deal with it :(
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Your boyfriend is letting his mom threaten you. He's letting her get in the middle of your relationship and he's also denying his baby. This relationship sounds awful. I'm sorry to say that but I've read some of your other posts and your boyfriend has been violent.
Are you in a safe place right now? I really hope so.
I agree with Rockrose. Contact her probation officer and show them the messages you've been getting.
If I were you I would not worry about them missing out on the baby. It sounds like they don't need to be around your baby at all. Just my opinion.
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If she's just sprung from jail,  it's likely she has a probation officer.  That's who to go to if the cops tell you some **** and bull story about how you can't file a restraining order against her.
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That poor child
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Oh his mom said SHES ordering a DNA test lol i hope she does cuz when my baby comes back his thryll relize how theyv missed out and how theyll continue to miss out. His family has him believing its ok to see how i am an ask about the baby ONLY when its convenient for him. If i dont reply they come over. Iv already cut all tirs with them. The father only has my texting APP number his mom texts me fron his phone. Me and thr fathrr are friends on facebook but we neither post anhthing. I honestly just wish some how some way my baby isnt his but thrres no chance its anyone elses :(
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Get the app called Mr number and block her number.. or what ever number she calls or text from...  when baby comes just get the DNA so everyone can shut their trap...
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Keep the text make a report to the police. When baby is born get a DNA test and file for child support. When they try to get visitation tell the judge that you don't want your baby alone with them it's not safe. Show the report and the text. Make sure you have proof on all of them. Video tape all interactions with him and his family and save all incoming calls and text as proof. Anytimr you get a threatening text or they do it in person make a police report. If you come up with enough you can get child support and he can only have supervised visitation and his family would be out of luck. That is how it worked the last place I lived and here so pretty sure you can do it. Good luck and get a order of protection as soon as you can. You have a baby to worry about and take care of.
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Change your number and cut ties move if you have to and keep everything on the dl. I'd seriously look as to wither you even want him on the birth certificate because then you have to deal with him and family for the next 18 years. And depending on the father he can really make your life a living hell with visitation child support new lady dramas etc etc.
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I called the police department and they said  legally i cant do anything untill she touches me becuase me and the father wasnt/isnt married.  And she pretends to be other people so i havr no proof its really her. Her parents even unwelcomed shoeed up at my house last week to tell me no one wants to help be inbolved and he denys it. Ehich hes NEVER did till she got out of jail. I guess my best bet is to go to the police department and try to talk to someone else.
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You can get a no Contact order with the threats take the texts to the police department I'm also sure that her making threats is call assault which means a threat of bodily harm without doing it. And 100 percent sure that would be a violation of her probation and can land herself back in jail.
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If you're being threatened yes you can do something about it. Take the texts that show it, and get the no contact order or follow up with the police. If she's using another phone bring that up too. If you feel threatened, please speak up.
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