Some things you just have to acknowledge exist, even though you don't understand it at ALL. Like, anorexia. I do NOT get that disease, why women will starve themselves to death. Don't get it.
I also don't get why so many infertile women are SO vindictive and spiteful. I don't get it, but I acknowledge it. It's common. (There are some infertile women who are supportive of other moms, or who at least take great pains to hid their jealousy, but there are enough who don't). If someone really really wants a nice car, they hang out with people with nice cars and oggle them. If someone really wants a horse, they make friends with people with horses so they can be there too.
Women who are trying to conceive and can't, are often the complete opposite and I honestly think many of them, if they could cause other women to miscarry and never be caught causing it, they would. They would actually want the baby dead.
Enjoy your pregnancy - and when you show the pictures to his parents and talk about your pregnancy, do it when his sister isn't around.
I would just ignore there rude comments, and just be happy with people who is happy about your pregnancy and I would still invite them and even there not cool about it at least your not sinking down there level but being the better person and not saying anything back or by not including them, hopefully they will come around if there mature enough grown woman... enjoy your pregnancy and down let there negativity get to you :)
I feel the same way! I'm scared to tell my mother because she told me not to get pregnant again but my husband doesn't have kids and he wants a baby. I feel sad and lonely. Pray to God so he can comfort you. He has helped me. I'm sorry that your family is so mean to you. I'm happy for you congrats
It's not just me that see their actions as wrong. Even my boyfriends stepmom, who also has no children of her own(due to his dad going through surgery to get "fixed" and having the surgery reversed and it not working) thinks that his sister is being absurd an rude. She knows what it's like to watch everyone around her have children and instead of being visibly upset and rude, she gives nothing but love and support.
Going well had the same issue. A lot of people are like big deal that I'm pregnant. Saying things like he is going to leave me. Its just like no excitement really about baby girl. However we have learned to ignore it and move forward with trying to build our family. The baby is a blessing regardless. You can't help the timing. You just have to trust God's plan for your new addition. If they come around they do if they don't oh well. However I do also understand the pressure and pain and can put on you two as a couple.
If you're more relaxed without them being them then don't invite them or keep them updated. They shouldn't bring you down for their insecurities or problems. That's just so rude of them. I mean you can't be the only one in yours or your bfs family to see how wrong that is of them!
Sounds like a bunch of jealously. Which is pretty sad coming from two grown women.