Found out my man is cheating AND I am due next week.

[NewatThis7980]

Yep. I just found condom wrappers and we haven't had sex the whole pregancy. In our house though!! Not sure how to handle this situation.

[Mrsjackson0406]

Try to be as strong as possible, the last thing you need is to stress your self and the baby. I would deal with it after having the baby. That is definitely total disrespect. I really dont k ow how i would ha dle the situation. He should be ashamed of himself.
Now it will come down to whether or not you want to work things out or focus on you and the baby.

[lilkrazie209]

Dam all bad my nephew cheated on my friend but now ever since their lil girl was born everything change but in my situation I wil Wheaton leave his *** but in yours I will follow your heart

[teiva1014]

O and mines didnt come home last night and im not stressing over it smh. Sometimes u have to let it be but he wnt b getting any lol o and u cant control another persons actions whats done in the dark always comes to light

[teiva1014]

Smdh men.... Honey dnt stress yourself out and dnt argue with him. Have your beautiful baby. Then u can talk to him later. Sometimes we think the worst but if it was done in your home that female or your bf has nothing good coming.

[mrs_meeklet]

sometimes guys masturbate with condoms on. before you jump to any rash conclusions, talk to your husband and straight up ask him "what is this all about?" and give him a chance to tell you what he did.

[anwhatin1]

Do u know for sure he is cheating. Condom wrappers could be used for master baton as well. Just a thought u don't want to be unsure. That being said if he truly is cheating then u need to stay calm but I would remove him from the house. He does not deserve to be there and I would have a friend or family member stay with u. This will take your mind of the situation but give u some support as well.
Once the baby is born and your returning home then u need to discuss what is going to happen moving forward. If he is imature then have him stay away for awhile so he can absorb what he has done to both of u. He can come over but on your terms.
If u decide to take him back be very clear what is except able and what isn't so that there is no confusion.
Very sorry to hear this but I have been through it as well and I had a 9 yrs break with my boyfriend and we got back together as adults and we have been good ever since.
Good luck take care and try to stay excited for your baby don't let this take that away from u

[Amaya2016]

I found out mine was doing this 3 days before I found out I was pregnant...he had been for months through my first pregnancy that ended in a miscarriage too and I had no clue. Abuse was the real reason why I left though. God has his plans. In the in its up to you. Just know you can do it without him , not easy but it's possible. I know it saved me and my baby.

[secrepeanut16]

Kick his arse to the curb. What a scumbag! You and the baby don't need him at all! It's more than disrespectful and in your own house! Pack his stuff and leave it outside. Find a new birthing partner and when the baby comes arrange for him to have contact. No point talking to him as he'll only lie about it. Let him get on with it

[Gracefully27]

Maybe there not his?

[lassailsa]

I pray that this man realises how badly he has screwed up. I can't imagine how you must feel, it hurts to imagine. You need to have love around you right now. Maybe turn to other family at times like these. My heart goes out to you. God bless you and your baby.

[Tashi863]

How rude, selfish, and disrespectful of him smh. Honey do what you feel is best for you and the baby. However, don't worry yourself to death or stress yourself out. Trust me it isn't worth putting the bbys health in danger over. I feel so bad for you because I honestly would lose it but you have to stay strong for the sake of the bby. God will take care of everything for you just trust in humans have faith. Be blessed hun.

[tisha2016]

You have the baby coming stay cool God will look after you Just pray he will lead you