Why are you asking for answers from people who know nothing about your life personally? No matter how many opinions people give you the ultimate decision is yours. You have wrote about this topic plenty of times to have come up with an answer.
You could either try having a serious conversation with him tell him how that makes you feel tell him to understand your side of this and see if you guys can get a conclusion , compromise so the both of you get what you need . Or you could just simply tell him you don't wanna be with a man who makes you feel this way and if he doesn't find a nicer way to go about this then maybe you should think about what's going to be best for your children . If staying in the relationship is what you truly want to do then you'll find a way to make it work , if your genuinely over this ***** and his bs , and if you feel like not being with him in the relationship will be best for your kids then do what you need to do . But your kids come first , so make decisions based on what's better for them to be around .
I cannot recommend staying nor leaving. If you really want things to work then stay. Try counseling but avoid involving the children, minds that young should not be involved in the angry triangle you are having to deal with. There are different methods of talking to your partner and often times when you speak to them the wrong way, they feel attacked and ridiculed. Men are a lot different then women and sometimes women come off too strong. My advice is, seek a third, unbiased party, whom you both can talk to. I'm sure there is more to this that the two of you should discuss. I hope everything works out for you.
It's mainly how he go about things ... like he cleaned out my car ur not taking my car without me I don't even play that I don't care what the case is u have no licence u have a warrant I didn't pay my insurance ... u not putting my daughter on the bus with two other small kids m my daughter is not going near ya bm she had threatened me n my kids since 2014 ..
He got so much to prove too them well his daughter cuz of their pissy *** mom everytime we broke up i tolf my daughter yo dad out here getting this money and a education never ever bad mouth my bf/bd...
I always wanted a family n if he's keeping his kids separated m making them feel more important than mine when they all should be equal and I'm just tired I'm done playing mother to his kids when they do come I'm not doing anything out of my way it's gonna be go ask ur dad I might just ducking leAve cuz I'm not going to be excluded or treated as a,maid or step child .
. Like he told his daughter when we move she can sleep in our bed ... I told him no she not cuz my kids ain't going to be in there cuz once it's bed time I'm naked n I don't want my or ur kids in my bed period
Thanks n I do but tired of being on the back burner I sometimes place my self there by not speaking up
Your gonna have to have a serious talk with you bf/father and let him know how this is effecting you along with the kids. Its his responsibility to keep things simmered between gf and baby mama. But when it comes to leaving or staying, thats ultimately your decision. We dont know the situation deep enough to tell you who to be with, and honestly thats a question votes cant help you with. You have to think about how much more can you take, But also take the children under consideration.