I need to Vent!!

[MrsJohnson0619]

So I have a big problem with my brothers girlfriends, concerning my fiance. Before me and him were anything, I guess they use to "talk". Talk meaning like each other's instagram photos and comment on each others photo's. Never met in person, or anything. that didn't bother me because it's was before him and I. But now when we have family gatherings I feel like she craves attention from him. She tries to be cute in front of him. Does certain things and acts a certain way. This may sound like I'm insecure, but no I'm not. I'm just aware. I already addressed her once with my feelings. (I'm a hot head.) She said she understands and we left it at that. And I obviously told him about my feelings too. Every time we have family gatherings my blood boils. Today I couldn't take it. I can just see myself beating her up. Him also. I had to leave my mom's house because I can not take it. I feel more uncomfortable now being pregnant too. I really don't like feeling this way but I am not bugging I know what I see and I hate it. I legit had to remove myself from the house because I am a crazy pregnant girl. And lord knows what I'm capable of doing. I just wanted to vent and let it all out here. my mother doesn't agree with me and thinks I'm crazy. And it really does hurt me. That even writing this I'm crying. Ugh I hate it. If I say anything to her it's not going to be nice. She already knows how I feel l, so there's no need to explain myself again. How would any normal person handle this. Because I'm to the point where I'll beat him and her up.!! I know if I wasn't pregnant it wouldn't bother me as much. :( someone talk to me. I tried my best to make it short. :/ sorry girls.

[MrsJohnson0619]

Yeah I try not to even entertained her because I know my fiance loves me as much as I love him.  (He really isn't that type of guy,& believe me I've  been with the worst of worst) but when I just see being repeated, i need to definitely speak or react to a more serious approach because clearly they aren't  getting it.

[MrsJohnson0619]

Yes my mother and I don't really have a good relationship right now. My brother is definitely a lil mommas boy.

[mrs_spencer53]

My brother is marrying my husbands ex. So I know how you feel! And the girl is a ***** so it just gives me more of a reason to hate her. Lol he wont even look her way though. So it helps. But the whole situation just sure. My advice is dont let her bother you! flaunt your stuff and show off YOUR man! That girl has nothing on you. Theres a reason your with him and having his baby! Keep that mentality and she will always be the one that feels insecure (even though your not). From my experience its best to act like the other girl doesnt even exist. Hope this helps!

[TerranAniya15]

I'm going to be honest... I'd knick her *** clean clear out.! That's jus what I would do bc you have addressed her about it already.! Now the gloves are coming off & no more being nice. But if your fiance is entertaining her bs then he needs to be handled.! Not saying you have to do any of that stuff iI'm just saying what I would do bc I'm a hot head when it comes to disrespect..

[MrsJohnson0619]

Thanks girls, just having feed back and talking to y'all feels good. They are both aware of my feelings. They know wassup, so I feel like it's pointless to even speak about it. I really wanted to say something to both of them in front of the whole family and just embarrassed them, and tell her straight up. You lucky your my brothers girlfriend because I would beat that behind for being disrespectful towards my feelings. I clearly told her don't talk to him, look.at him nothing!!! & to be flirting talking to him when I'm not around, and i come in and see that, pisses my the F off!! I'm telling y'all I had to say a couple prayers to not beat the behind. My mom is what stopped me from saying anything. My brother & mom thinks I'm crazy just because I don't take nothing from now one. Ugh. Woosahh

[mommyofthedoubleA]

Honestly I would probably feel the same way. but it's a little ridiculous your own mothers not agreeing with you even after telling her. Sounds like your brothers a mommas boy. Sorry if he's not. But all in all breathe you don't wanna stress your body to Long.  

[cliqueguy1992]

I think you should take a deep breath your not crazy because there are girls that act like that and you got to let them know. My man knows I don't play because I will kick his *** and hers pregnant or not. I'm hot blooded just like you just give her a warning and him especially because you can never be to careful but does he even notice she acts like that? If he ignores it then I wouldn't say anything but if he's feeding into it just tell him like it is your pregnant your a little hormonal just tell him to consider your feelings and then just threaten him after lol but yea just relax honey it will be ok.

[Babygirl1530]

I would try and sit down and talk to him again.tell him its stressing u out really bad and he needs to stop her from what she is doing and she needs to understand that u 2 are having a kid together and she need to leave him be. you shouldn't be stressing out its not good for ur baby. stay strong and I know I'm not much help but at lease sit and tali with him. good luck.