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I hate him

Is anyone here don't like their husband or boyfriend while their pregnant
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I had trouble during my first trimester and thought about leaving my boyfriend things like my changing hormones definitely affected the way i felt but also we talked about the things that bother us like adults do we have been so happy for a really long time now with no arguments and we get to have our daughter this Thursday we are so ready to meet her :)
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Lol yea mainly because my hormoans and I just get angry easily lol but I do love him so :p married btw so he's used to my moods because this is the second pregnancy :p
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I definately have my moments where I wanna smack him silly but there's also times that I don't know what I'd do without him. Times he's helpful and considerate and other times he just gets under my skin! Its definatly the hormones. My mom even points it out to me lol. Anybidys significant other seem super clingy at times and other times distant or am I losing my mind?
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Totally agree this has made me start thinking more about our relationship. He has been so selfish last few months no support dont know if it hormones or just me waking up
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I love my boyfriend but today I told him I hate him and want to strangle him... I know he doesn't believe me when I say those things and he understands I still love him... I dont know where the anger comes from but he stays tough and lets me rant when I need to and honestly, I feel better after, and a lil guilty... but better to get those thoughts outta my head!  Hormones make us crazy, dont maje big decisions while you're pregnant but do take time for yourself if you need it :)
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Lol at times yes. I try to not let my hormones get the best of me because the things I get mad about are his stupid job!!! He works way too much and I appreciate his hard work... but seriously?? No one else would do for him what he does. Just come home! You're family misses you!!
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When I hate him I HATE him, and when I love him I ADORE him. Hormones. Thank God he has a pretty even temperament, if I were in his place I would have left ages ago lol. Hormones suck.
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I have done some real dumb things in the past and he still loves and cares about me so I will certainly not bad mouth him to strangers..i love him very much and this is our third kiddo..we have been together this long and no plans of it ending ever
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Yup I was sick of being lied to and cheated on and then blamed it was my fault he did it. Went on for almost 2 years before I left. Best decision I have made, I'm less stressed and the kids are less stressed bc they don't hear us fight.
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Aw this thread makes me so sad! I love my hubby and he has been so great! I hope you can all find the love soon!
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He told me I need help. I been thinking about do I really want to be with him then I love him again. Now I hate him
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Yes mine I love or I hate and it can change in a split second. Your not alone. ;)
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We all crazy lol I thought it was only me but  I'm not alone:)
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My bf says I a B.  I just laughed at him.  I'm ready to slap him.
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I can't stand mines wish I could hit him in the head
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Yup! I left mine. I couldn't even stand looking at him.
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I hated my husband so much during part of my pregnancy I seriously considered leaving him. I gave it the benefit of the doubt and blamed it on hormones and it turned out to be just that. I'm 39 weeks now and very much in love with him again :)
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Lol.  My husband is lucky i havent hit him with the big frying pan i have yet.  I dont know if us being pregnant has made us more aware of how stupid our husbands actually can be lol
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lol yes like today hes cutting me down in front of HIS daughter and always has and our son whos 22 months. i didn't let it continue i started right at him played his game. then after lunch i always have to clean up.  our 22 month old split his food i left it and put him to bed. he made his daughter clean up lol everything but wipe up the milk on the floor and my plate...im so sick of him.....so i just left mt plate...amd the milk.
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lol yes like today hes cutting me down in front of HIS daughter and always has and our son whos 22 months. i didn't let it continue i started right at him played his game. then after lunch i always have to clean up.  our 22 month old split his food i left it and put him to bed. he made his daughter clean up lol everything but wipe up the milk on the floor and my plate...im so sick of him.....
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