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I think my bf is cheating..

He keeps making a fb then when I find out he deletes it then couple days later he makes it again.. I have a strong feeling he's doing something very sneaky. Is it psychotic of me to go on his fb and check?
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9812003 tn?1452545539
I hope everything works out for you. There was no disrespect intended, so please don't take it that way. If you felt this way before your pregnancy it isn't hormones it's intuition and you don't need to snoop to find out what you already know.
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A woman's intuition is almost always right. My SO is constantly messaging females on fb and erasing his entire conversation.And its constantly with the same people.I let him know if he thinks the grass is greener on the other side he is free to go because I need to focus on me and my children. Not on a man that is sneaking and cheating.
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It is NOT psychotic at all.I would do the exact same thing . BUT I would confront him first and if he denies, then I would check.
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GO AHEAD & check his facebook thats the only way you will find out other wise he can lie, If he is cheating then why be with him, some men dont know how to treat a good women and need to learn if they do something wrong there going to lose you.  
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Hes gotta be cheating im sorry.. Thats just ridiculous... I would go off on him if i were you
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I'm gonna have to check it. He'll only tell me if I have evidence. I know he lies and idk if he's cheating or doing drugs but he's doing something. And obviously I'm not gonna stay if he's cheating I know my main focus is my son! So don't say that
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If he's deleting his account and reactivating it....yes honey....he's up to no good...and no there is nothing wrong with going through his account to see if he's doing wrong...some people call it invading someones personal business.... I say what the hell ever..that's only because people whom say that bs has hidden agendas themselves.... Everyone deserves to know if someone is not being honest with them!!....sometimes you get the info voluntarily or involuntarily Lol..... I will play Inspector Gadget quick fast and Won't think twice about it!!!....be hidden in a damn tree with a camouflage outfit on *just kidding*.....but.....I have no problem spinning my head like beetlejuice and throwing up the peace sign...call it what you wanna call it..  
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Men lie. My husband has lied to me many many many times. He only tells me the truth if i have proof. Check your boyfriends Facebook.
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What if u find nothing and what if he lies than what. Please don't become this paranoid woman like most woman do when they think something is suspicious. Everything that is done in the dark will come to light. If u are a woman of prayer than it works. Don't destroy ur family off of something u don't know. See what is going on and before u jump too conclusions and get all in his face. You and ur baby will suffer if u make a decision without first finding out. I pray that he isn't and things work out for and ur family.
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You're right.. I'll just wait and see. If I found nothing then broke our family up I'd be devastated.
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No it's not, need to confront him any man who's acting secretive and weird around isn't ok. Need to talk to him and ask
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9812003 tn?1452545539
Yes, it is. If you think he is doing something confront him he will either tell the truth or lie. You can only control you, if you are reduced to snooping then why be with him. Either you trust him or you don't and the bigger question is if he is doing something are you going to stay or leave? If you are going to stay regardless, does it really matter? It ***** that some people cheat, we can't control others and it would probably only be fun for a second if we could, because we want people to genuinely love and care about us. The focus is your baby. Pray all works out for you.
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You can completely delete fb only deactivate ,as fat as him cheating follow instinct  truth be told boys will be boys some just like to look, converse etc it's on you to believe what he says and I suggest praying about it if it's meant it will be no need to stress, with or without him your health is what matters at this point...
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Sorry you can't  delete it I meant
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He Can Delete It But Once That Happens Its Gone But If He Is Doinq That He's Just Deactivating He He Would Have To Go Through A Full process To Remake It Everytime Your Not Wronq Because You May Have Your Reasons To Think He's Cheatinq Hope Everything Works Out Hum
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