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This maybe tmi but my boyfriend wants nothing to do with me...... I dont understand why. Or what is wrong with my body? I have not gained very much just in the belly. Is anyone else's going through this or is it just me. I just wanna cry.
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Ok girls I know that I was saying all that **** but I'm pretty pissed off right now. He dnt wanna have sex and I'm gonna f***** cheat on him. I'm only 20 yrs old and he's being a *******
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He does love you but maybe he's worried abt u and the baby. I start giving mine " I'm not good enough for u " talk lol
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Dnt worry girls ! It's got nothing to do with the fact that ur body has changed or anything. My hubby has calmed down a lot after I've got pregnant (well he was calm before too) but I know that it's because he thinks he's gonna harm the baby or me. Maybe that's the same situation with ur boyfriends . Tbh I get offended sometimes and have a fight and then he kisses me and hugs me and tells me he wouldn't exchange me for anyone in the world.
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Same here. Feels like he's forcing himself to have sex with me. He's hardly even been affectionate to me for the last week. I just got a pat on the shoulder when he left for work today. And now he probably won't be home until 3 am again.
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Hmm evn I used to feel the same.whn my hubby strtd treating me like a baby...I used make moves and dang nothing a kiss on forehead max.
I asked him y do u do so..I am nt looking goof.he said its not like tht I have d feeling it may hurt u..and knowing d baby is inside it kinda a off feels weird..
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10256164 tn?1408981241
My boyfriend says he's "tired" and thats why.. but I'm more tired than he is!! It's something I don't think they understand. .. just keep trying and try not to get too upset.  It will get better but it will take time.
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I know that one. Mine is mad because I started crying but really what dose he expect me  to ok wuth the fact that he dosnt want me.
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Iknow how you feely bf never wants to n iy hurts my feelings amd when I told him he got mad at me amd isnt speaking to me
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I put the moves on him and he said no. When I talked to him all he could say was idk
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10256164 tn?1408981241
I'm the same way... he may just be worrying about hurting the baby? I hear a lot of guys think that..
But it will get better just ask him what's going on? Try not to let ur emotions get ahold of you.  Maybe you can try and put the moves on him? That's what I do lol
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