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my heart is broken

I'm 12 weeks and thats when i decided to tell my babys dad,he was so exited that day and showing  me love that he never showed me before.
After one week he told me that he got another girl pregnant that does the same reaction, she told him that also in her 12weeks ,he was always there for me,for my appointments and always asking"how is baby"?
Since after he told me the other girl was also pregnant he started humiliate me:
His phone when i call it goes  straight to voicemail texts never answered and when I finally reach him at his work's phone he was acting,talking very rude.That's really sad:( I'm asking does he have a heart
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Thank you so much Misskay
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If it's God's will then let him go. You don't need a man to make you be a great mother. My mother raised 8 kids solo and said it was better that way. She didn't have a spouse undermining her, using her, demanding the attention she gave to us, and was over all successful. Had her own business too. Not sure how you feel about your bf after finding out he was dipping into another honey pot, but my advise is act like you don't care about him. He might be acting that way because he knows you will take him back. Rejection will get to him wide then of you chase after him. All you need is your baby, not his bs. Good luck girlie
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Yeah that's a good question but I'm sincerely speech abt it
I believe that i'm trying so hard to work and God will handle the rest
Thank u ladies for your supports,answers and advices helped me so much
Thank for your prayers
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Really? Asking a realistic question upset you guys? Exactly my situation is a both better, however it is still hard. All the more reason to think about the choice you are making for the child you already have who should not have to worry about working to help her mom but being a child. Women need to be introduced to the realities of the decisions they a tree e making and this is not just for one child but two. So the question here is how will your existing child be affected by your decision.
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Absolutely you beautiful mom god will look after you don't even worry okay give all your worries and your sadness to him and watch .. Watch your world change x. So proud to see single moms its a big job but its ABSOLUTELY WORTH EVER SINGLE SECOND

It upset me to read what asya wrote but you handled that well. Blessyou
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Thank u my dear friends,Asya1986,it's OK to ask my dear but the only reasons I'm smiling its bcoz of my daughter she s 13 but cant count on her bcoz of school and poor her is trying to work, you know basicaly for fun.  sometimes feeling that babys moving slowly inside of me,its a miracle have to keep it.
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I'm 31 weeks and my baby's father hasnt been to ANY of my appointments it used to bother me at first but now I'm just waiting on my bundle of joy ..trust me your baby is all you need :)
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Your not in the same situation. Dont put that into her head!!!
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You are never alone, have faith. Stay strong. Shortly you will never be alone.. You have so much. Stay happy for that baby.. This situation brings tears to my eyes because nobody deserves this. Truly good luck darling!
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Sorry to ask but do you really want to keep this pregnancy given your situation? I ask because my I'm kind of alone...baby's dad is participating but always working. My parents are kind of far and it's already pretty hard. I'm almost 30 weeks and even getting up without his help is difficult. I spend my own money on things for baby and get some from friends.  
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Thank u so much I will
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I'm so sorry. Be strong for baby & you. Hes not worth a single tear.
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Your answers just bringing up my tears thanks to u ladies.Have no friends or familly i'm thinking abt who'll be with me when it'll be my delivery and i can't even work?thanks for your prayers,Only God knows
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Your baby is all you need!!! I'll keep you in my prayers!! Good luck!!,
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Leave him be
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No he doesn't. Sorry momma
pray to our lord he will give you the strength
U can do this without him

Don't let yourself be treated wrongly pls x
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