boyfriend problems... advice help please

[jazzie_xo]

So probably the first couple of months in are relationship i found a photo of a girl in his drop box, she wasn't nude but in her bra and bending over. Sent via snapchat. Of course i confronted him about

[Mommysboys2]

Try to keep your cool and just come out and say how you feel. Don't get distracted by what he says. Just make sure you make it clear how you feel and how hes made you feel. If you don't feel comfortable doing that. Write your thoughts on a piece of paper and give it to him..like a letter. It sounds cheesy but it works! Sometimes we can say things in writing rather than through our voices.

[jazzie_xo]

So what do i say???

[marindamqz]

That's why he does it. Because he knows he can get you.

[jazzie_xo]

I just don't know how to bring it up. Without him getting all hurt and crying and then it just makes me feel bad and then i just go with its ok...

[jazzie_xo]

That is it though, i don't think he is talking to other girls.. its just the fact that he is on these social media sites looking at girls. Makes me feel like I'm not what he wants or i need to improve something.

[jazzie_xo]

Yeah, I'm not impressed at all... i dont go around looking at other guys, then telling him he's the only guy i look at.. its frustrating.

[Melissa_25]

Tell him he needs to either stop with the other girls or your done. You don't need that in your life and if he won't stop before baby then he won't stop after and that'll just become more of a problem the longer it goes on.

[marindamqz]

Make sure he knows he's the reason you CAN'T trust him. It's not that you "don't". It's that you can't. Stuff like that takes time to get over and he needs to kiss butt to get that trust back, not delete his history.

[Neesha_]

Break his phone nd tell him dont play with you! Lol but don't even stess out about it its not even about trust he shouldn't have other females in his phone nor talking to them. That's disrespectful

[Lyssum]

My fiance just downloaded snapchat. But all his contacts are his 3 brothers and thats it.... i wouldnt be impressed if i was in your position...

[jazzie_xo]

I just don't know what to do... or how to react, i just feel hurt and when i say something he just says "you don't trust that's the problem." And i do i don't think he is gonna go off with these girls i just dont understand why he has to look at other womens photos...

[marindamqz]

You're not being paranoid, your gut is telling you to listen. If he does it once, he'll do it again.

[jazzie_xo]

It and he started crying and saying he was sorry and what not. Ever since then i just don't feel good enough. I'm trying not to stress due to are baby. And how baby feels what I'm feeling but every other day his history is deleted. And yesterday he was looking at a bunch of girls photos on facebook in the morning... and idk am i being paranoid??? Or just i just drop it

[marindamqz]

There's no reason for any honest man to have Snapchat. H e l l no.