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Pregant with my 2nd baby and feel as if my spouse is totally checked out...help

Hi I'm pregant with my second baby and my fiancé is distant than ever. He won't touch me, shows no emotion, won't even tell me he loves me unless I say it first. If he does say it it's only when I leave for work and I feel like he's saying it out of habit. He wanted a second baby like I did but now that I'm pregant I can't seem to help but wonder where he is...he's physically here but emotionally he's checked out. Hormones I know play tricks on us ladies. However I'm telling you he is distant. Goes outside whenever he can to avoid me. Sleeps on the couch whenever it seems like he gets a chance. He cheating?? Anyone ever go thru this??? Desperately seeking help....
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Ive been there I'm due with my second in just one week and I understand how u are feeling its normal my fiance after monthsfinally loosened up he was just worried about how our daughter was gonna feel and money was going to be spent how our time was going to be split he was so overwhelmed and didn't know how to let it out just talk with him let him know u will still make time for him and make sure he know that all will be fine and how happy your child will be to have someone to love and play with
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