Pregnancy & Divorce

[Kimmie_86]

So my husband and I have been seperated since June (almost my entire pregnancy) and he also filed for divorce. Its's been a very messy situation and he has caused a lot of unnecessary drama and stress to my pregnancy. He's made a kinds of allegations of mw cheating to me being abusive to him and our 2 yr old son. All of this really sycks because I am definitely considered "high risk pregnancy" which he knows but just simply doesn't care. Anyways I will delivering in January and was wondering if anyone knew if I had to allow him the delivery room? I just don't want the drama because its supposed to be stress free and him and his family have been just plain awful.

[Kimmie_86]

Thank you ladies! I thought it was case but I was just being sure.

[dianaexoh]

If you make it known that you do not want him there, they will keep him out. They don't want to risk any stress on you and baby.

[BMommy2be1996]

You don't have to allow anyone in the delivery room that you do not want in there. Just let your nurses and doctors know. Most hospitals have a code word you can set up and if the person doesn't know it they aren't allowed in or to get any information about you or the baby. I didn't allow my sons biological father in the delivery room either. Just make sure you let them know as soon as you get there and in your room. Good luck!