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My Babyfather is evil
So I'm 20 year's old and I lost my virginity to my brothers bestfriend who I happened to have a crush on since I was 15. We got together when I was 19 and he is the only guy I've ever been with. When we got together everything was good but he started acting crazy accusing me of sleeping with everyone even my own brother. He said it's because I lied, I didn't lie I just never told him that my ex from highschool went down on me one time ever but I did end up telling him. Anyway I found out I was pregnant by him of course cause we only used a condom one time ever and I wasn't on birth control. We broke up cause I didn't want to keep it and he did.
I never got the abortion cause the money I saved up was stolen by the way I was 12 weeks at this time. I still told him I got it done because he was becoming a stalker. The next time I went to get it done Which I was 15 weeks now. The place Suddenly raised the price any extra 250 So I took this as a sign that the baby was ment to be here. I told him and we even got back together now I'm 31 weeks and he keeps saying it's not his cause he saw me with another guy which he didn't cause I never been with any other guy but him. We broke up again today and I really miss him but part of me doesn't cause I'm sick of being accused of something I didn't do. Please help me guys I really don't know what to do should I miss this guy or suck it up and move on ?
I never got the abortion cause the money I saved up was stolen by the way I was 12 weeks at this time. I still told him I got it done because he was becoming a stalker. The next time I went to get it done Which I was 15 weeks now. The place Suddenly raised the price any extra 250 So I took this as a sign that the baby was ment to be here. I told him and we even got back together now I'm 31 weeks and he keeps saying it's not his cause he saw me with another guy which he didn't cause I never been with any other guy but him. We broke up again today and I really miss him but part of me doesn't cause I'm sick of being accused of something I didn't do. Please help me guys I really don't know what to do should I miss this guy or suck it up and move on ?
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Hi there. Well, it doesn't sound like you had a really solid relationship or anything before the pregnancy and his reactions sure are strange. from telling you to abort to accusing you of things. I am not feeling like a happy ending is in the future for you two. I'm sorry about that. Is your family supportive?
Move on. You dont need that negativity in your life. He is just going to continue accusing you of lying.
Yeah I have a huge family and their all really happy about the baby they always help me out when I need it.
Good you need that support from your family
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