Aa
:( just venting
so today I asked my bf to let me borrow his phone bc mines died and I never use or go through his phone and well today when I was using it to text my friend as soon as I type hey right under where it gives u your most used words options the words beautiful and sexy showed up and he neverrrrrr everrrr calls me that so i automatically knew he's telling that to someone else he keeps denying it making it seem like Im crazy but I know what I saw now I'm so sad and we keep arguing about it idk what to do??
Do you think you could maybe be overreacting due to the past? I mean, maybe you should trust him on this. Maybe he's not just "kissing your a.s.s" because he messed up. Maybe he is just being genuine and truly does love you. As you said, he's gotten you guys a home, a car, and seems to be taking pretty d.a.m.n good care of you.
Maybe he is being honest. Have you thought of that yet? He seems to be pretty decent and you seem to he pretty lucky to have a man to take care of you. Phones do stupid stuff all the time, and you can either take his word or let him go. Don't play games with him, when there is a possibility he's being true to you.
Maybe he is being honest. Have you thought of that yet? He seems to be pretty decent and you seem to he pretty lucky to have a man to take care of you. Phones do stupid stuff all the time, and you can either take his word or let him go. Don't play games with him, when there is a possibility he's being true to you.
I just tried it on my phone and the suggested words are "guys" and "man" even though I'm sure I've never started out a text like that before to anyone. But, those are pretty innocuous so, whatever.
But I was just thinkin, in your case, you said that he "used to text girls all the time" previously, so is it possible that it's left over in the phone's memory from when he used to write those kinds of texts before? I'm trying to give him the benefit of the doubt here but I don't know the guy and you do, so you'd know better whether he is over all of that nonsense or if he would still be engaging in those shenanigans at this point in time. If yes, then you'll have to choose your next steps wisely.
But I was just thinkin, in your case, you said that he "used to text girls all the time" previously, so is it possible that it's left over in the phone's memory from when he used to write those kinds of texts before? I'm trying to give him the benefit of the doubt here but I don't know the guy and you do, so you'd know better whether he is over all of that nonsense or if he would still be engaging in those shenanigans at this point in time. If yes, then you'll have to choose your next steps wisely.
My phone doesn't say anything idk if it's an iPhone thing and today he woke up and made me breakfast and keeps kissing my a$$ bc I'm being a b!tch to him I barely even talked to him last night and I feel dumb for having sex with him last night but it's a while and I couldn't resist ugh
we are hormonal right now so granted we may be acting more crazy than usual but always listen to your gut, that never lies. as for him buying you a house and car ...there are lots of men who do that and cheat and there are just as many who do that and don't cheat. The question here is why do you think he is cheating? you said you caught him texting and messaging other girls before if a man really loves his women he would never put her in the position to ever catch him texting or even looking at other women. I wish you luck I really wish the best for you like I said I've been on that boat and don't wish it on anyone.
Is it possible he's telling the truth?
I just typed "hey" into my phone and the two "suggested" next words were "guys" and "you".
I've never typed those words in, ever. I never type "hey you" or "hey guys".
Is it possible his other word choices, and other preference settings on his phone have given him those word choices?
What does your phone do when you type "hey"?
I just typed "hey" into my phone and the two "suggested" next words were "guys" and "you".
I've never typed those words in, ever. I never type "hey you" or "hey guys".
Is it possible his other word choices, and other preference settings on his phone have given him those word choices?
What does your phone do when you type "hey"?
He doesn't seem mad or yelling at me he's all calmed telling me he's not talking to no one and how he only wants me and his daughter and if he was cheating he would of not got us the house he just got us or bought me my car I just got and do everything else he does for me and he blah blah blah I'm so stressed and I will do that tonight when I get home from work I work for the phone provider he has so he will believe it thanks for the advice
my advice is this but only if your ready to hear that he is cheating if your not ready to hear it than I say get over it (sorry if it sounds harsh) the reason I say this is because what is the point of wanting to know if he is cheating if your not going to leave him and find yourself a better man....
You need to sit him down and tell him this: " I am only gonna ask you once, and before you answer let me tell you that I have gone through your cell phone bill and called every number i did not recognize. Are you cheating on me?" If he buys it you will have your answer if he starts yelling at you for snooping and calling his friends he is cheating on you, if he apologizes he is cheating on you. if he continues to deny it than you two need to have a discussion on why you have so much doubt with him. Trust me been there done that and as easy as it sounds but hard to do trust me when I say you DON'T want this relationship.
It makes you so unhappy steals away any great moments and always leaves you with should've, could've, would've.
Just ask yourself these questions: When was the last time me and him were truly happy with no doubt lingering? What are you always arguing about? Are we always fighting about the same thing? and do I trust him 100%? Hope I didn't make you any sadder but sometimes it helps to look at reality, I was in a relationship for almost 5yrs and i thought I was in love but truth was he was with me for convenience, used me, treated me bad emotionally, always fought, and cheated I was in denial. I left him and am now married to the man of my dreams and I couldn't be any happier. don't hold yourself back from a wonderful life your prince is out there you just need to let him walk into your life.
You need to sit him down and tell him this: " I am only gonna ask you once, and before you answer let me tell you that I have gone through your cell phone bill and called every number i did not recognize. Are you cheating on me?" If he buys it you will have your answer if he starts yelling at you for snooping and calling his friends he is cheating on you, if he apologizes he is cheating on you. if he continues to deny it than you two need to have a discussion on why you have so much doubt with him. Trust me been there done that and as easy as it sounds but hard to do trust me when I say you DON'T want this relationship.
It makes you so unhappy steals away any great moments and always leaves you with should've, could've, would've.
Just ask yourself these questions: When was the last time me and him were truly happy with no doubt lingering? What are you always arguing about? Are we always fighting about the same thing? and do I trust him 100%? Hope I didn't make you any sadder but sometimes it helps to look at reality, I was in a relationship for almost 5yrs and i thought I was in love but truth was he was with me for convenience, used me, treated me bad emotionally, always fought, and cheated I was in denial. I left him and am now married to the man of my dreams and I couldn't be any happier. don't hold yourself back from a wonderful life your prince is out there you just need to let him walk into your life.
Yes he has in the past he would message girls on Facebook and text girls telling them stuff like that and i found out it weird that as soon as I typed hey beautiful and sexy appeared right next to each other , I work at phone and mess with all kinds of phones all the time and see all this crazy stuff and people's phones all the time and I've learned a lot so I know he's telling some girls out there stuff and it hurts my feelings bc he neverrrrrrr calls me that or compliments me if he did I would not be assuming anything at all
If you really feel concerned call your provider and look at the phone records, I know my phone does that when I type Hey Hello or Hi it starts to pop up beautiful and words like that and I'm not calling any other girls or guys that lol, Has he given you any other reason to doubt his loyalty? Don't over stress yourself before you actually have proof
I can't stop crying bout it and he keeps making me feel like I'm just thinking stuff but I know what I saw he keeps kissing my a$$ telling me all these beautiful things but that won't make me forget it what i saw now I'm wondering who is he talking to bc he has no social medias
No hun ur not carzy x
Am I crazy or would u think the same thing if u saw that in your bf phone ?
Awe don't be sad or upset, it's easier said than done but at this point you should focus on you and your baby. I myself kinda woke up feeling upset with my boyfriend too. So I kind of get it :/
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