Just remember what's best for your baby. Him throwing books at you especially while you're pregnant shows he is dangerous and imagine what he could do to a child if he got angry. Plus it would set a terrible example to your child thinking yelling and throwing things or hitting a woman was okay. He doesn't seem ready to be a father and even though it hurts kicking him out your baby is more important.
It was absolutely the right thing to do. He's the one that seems to be everything he's calling you. Honestly, I wouldn't let him back. Stand your ground and do what's best for you and baby. Good luck.
I hope he knows that the baby can hear that fighting. Not good. If a man physically or verbally abused me, more then once..... There would be no way I would stay with him. That's just me though.
Yup ! Right thing to do !!
I would have kicked him to the curb the first time he got physical with me. U deff did the right thing. There is no excuse for him to do tht
Thanks for the feedback ladies
dremarie, I think it's good that you're maturing. I don't know much about your relationship, but since you have a history of light physical combat with each other, and now you're trying to change that dynamic, chances are pretty good that you'll be successful.
Couples need to learn the skill of arguing lovingly and without physical or verbal punches. It's a skill you develop through watching successful couples or reading.
I'd recommend The Care and Feeding of Marriage by Dr. Laura Schlessinger.
Best wishes. You're on the right track.