Ugh

[Nehemiah_Mommmy]

Baby Daddy being a ***** and all I want to do is cuddle with him and make him rub my stomach.

[specialmom]

I'm not sure what to think of this post.  I think it was posted like it was a problem between this couple but in actuality, it was a playful post.  They seem to be fine.  

If there is a bigger picture where this guy is kind of giving in a lot to the demands of another and he's not real happy, it's up to him to voice it and not for us to try to change the posters point of view.  

I do personally like things to be mutual or I don't feel like it is sincere.  And I want it to be sincere from my man's heart rather than fear of me being mad at him.  But that is how I feel about it.  The poster can run things as she likes but it doesn't sound like there is any real problem anyway.  luck to all

[DarkenedPrincess]

Lol @mummtobee I only need help with heavy lifting and moving furniture and even at that I done some of it myself. I'm very impatient :P It just annoys me because its people like this that give us a bad name. Pregnancy is a gift not an excuse for demands!

[DarkenedPrincess]

People who make their partners do stuff are just selfish and think they deserve when they don't. If you get lazy when pregnant it will only bite you in the backside when the baby is here as you are used to sitting on your backside all the time. Especially first time new mothers and your only 17 so you are still in a teenage attitude but you will get a fright as after baby is born its not about you anymore. Its not wrong to get pregnant at that age I have nothing against women who do as my mother was pregnant at 16 and I have 3 other siblings. Done it all herself not expecting anything from my dad. He offered she never had to make him.

[mumm2bee]

I meant to say Yes*** not yesterday lmao

[mumm2bee]

Trust me I learned the hard way. It feels much more sincere when it comes from their will to do it. DarkenedPrincess you are right on track girl. We are pregnant not disabled yesterday we might need help with some things but that doesn't give us the right to be bossy.

[DarkenedPrincess]

I agree with mumm2bee. You shouldn't have to make him, I would rather they want to do it for me instead of feeling they have to because you are pregnant. I live on my own and I'm 4ft 11 and my spine is a little out of place, so its a bit more difficult with pregnancy but I expect no one to do anything for me as the best person to be their for you is yourself. Never rely on a man to do anything. You are entitled to ask him but if he says no then asks you to do something for him say no treat people how they treat you only if they are being unfair first. Doesn't mean you have the right to make a person. If hes doing what you say how is he being a swear word??? A guy isnt a bad person because he is not doing what you demand. Its called free will.

[DarkenedPrincess]

I agree with mumm2bee. You shouldn't have to make him, I would rather they want to do it for me instead of feeling they have to because you are pregnant. I live on my own and I'm 4ft 11 and my spine is a little out of place, so its a bit more difficult with pregnancy but I expect no one to do anything for me as the best person to be their for you is yourself. Never rely on a man to do anything. You are entitled to ask him but if he says no then asks you to do something for him say no treat people how they treat you only if they are being unfair first. Doesn't mean you have the right to make a person.

[missbekah1011]

It's people who demand and make their partners do things they don't want to do who give pregnant women a bad name. Mine doesn't get angry or violent it's just not fair to force them to do something.

[allehkitteh]

If it's playing around why feel the need to vent about it?....

[Nehemiah_Mommmy]

@luxah Yes, my baby daddy don't get mad we be playing around.

[mumm2bee]

Seriously. Don't put yourself in that position where you demand stuff just because your pregnant. He is his own person not your slave. It'll come to him to do things for you and what you're doing is only going to push him away. He's gonna keep acting like a **** if you keep that up.

[Nehemiah_Mommmy]

I'm not like yal, when I want something I get it or I go get it myself. Me and my baby daddy always play around like that like when he want me to do something he give me the puppy dog face until I say yed

[luxah]

Lol. I make my husband do stuff he doesn't wanna do on a daily basis. Like going to the store with me, or cleaning up the house if I don't feel like it cus thats all I do everyday anyways. I don't find it wrong that you make him cuddle and rub your belly, I do that too. Cus it feels nicer when someone else does it. It becomes a problem when they get violent and angry.  Mine doesn't,  dunno about yours.

[missbekah1011]

You can't make him to anything. He is his own person. It doesn't matter if you want him to or not. You can't force him to do anything. Force him to do to it is wrong on your part.

[Nehemiah_Mommmy]

But my baby daddy doing it.

[DarkenedPrincess]

No you can't as thats wrong. I'm a 20 years old single mother to be and my ex partner was a... big swear word but I couldn't make him do anything as it would cause me stress as he would refuse. Stress is not good for mummys to be so I left him. Now I have no stress and I'm better on my own. I'm 37+1

[Nehemiah_Mommmy]

Yes I can

[brittanie_may]

You can't make him do things.