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Valentine's Day

Anyone else being ditched abd not get anything from your man. Because that's me. I got him s card yesterday. I thought he had my gift hid. Not the case. Then he informs me he won't even be home tonight. And he's NOT joking
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Who cares if you don't have friends. Friends come and go. Family is who is actually there for you no matter what. Just be with your daughters and don't get all worked up about not getting anything. It's just another day honestly. I think valentines is like for friends to get each other things. I don't care if I don't get gifts. The best gift I ever got was my baby and the relationship with my bf. I agree with shen33 that's it's nothing to fuss about. Don't get all sad
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Didn't wanna be spoiled...Just would have been nice to get a card or him even saying happy Valentine's Day to me
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I'm not alone exactly. I've got my two little girls with me. No true friends either. They all stopped talking to me after my first pregnancy. Since I couldn't party anymore. I just expected something from him. Been together 3 yrs getting married good year...well supposed to if things work out right. *sigh* just disappointed. I'll get over it. Thanks ladies
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I feel Vday is when you are dating. My husband and I don't fuss with this day. I don't feel less loved or that he doesn't care. It is something we have discussed and agreed on. If you want a Vday gift and to be made a fuss of then maybe tell him this in advance. Most men feel that if you are married and especially if you have kids or are pregnant - what's the point. So tell him you still want to be spoiled on this day.
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It is pretty much another day unless you just want candy and stuff. Don't get all upset. My bf works and I won't see him till next week. It's just another day for me
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I think that's mean. And you should just treat yourself then. Get dressed up and go do something maybe with a friend or something. I wouldn't sit at home alone though that will just make you feel more hurt.
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Mine bf has done me wrong the whole pregnancy and we stay together!! I've cried so many days, I've gone depressed
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It's just the fact that I didn't even get a Happy Valentine's Day. It's just going to be another day. I don't think it should be like that if you have someone to share it with. I shouldn't have said I'm mad...I'm actually just hurt. I got him the best card. Said exactly how I feel in it. I got up before he did. So I set the card next to the bed with his phone so when his alarm went off he'd see it. And I get is him saying that he's not going to be here tonight. He could have at least got me like one of them 97¢ cards or something. I'm not really a flower kinda girl...at least not roses. Something would have been nice...Just something
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Don't let it bother you, it may Su ck but it is one day out of the year, you should be made to feel special everyday. Unless its your anniversary or something similar let it go and don't let it get you down.
Do something to make yourself feel special if it is necessary to celebrate the date.
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I'm sorry that is just so mean. ... well happy valentine's from me and my little baby bump
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No he's really not. He's really ditching me. I'M SO MAD. This ain't one of his little jokes....He's really doing that to me
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Maybe he's hidding the plans he has for you two.
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