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My boyfriend wont have sex with me.

Im 35 weeks. Its not that hes afraid of hurting the baby he just feels weird know that our son is in my belly as if hes watching us or something. We dont have sex a ton but it was usually at least 3-4 times a month. Its getting close and Ive read that having sex can help with labor. HOW do I get him to see that its not weird to have sex?
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the more the better!! it softens the cervex and thats the goal!! Just be a little softer towards the end, but enjoy it while you still can. it might be a while before youre ready again
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You can make him feel like its not weird. Because to him it is weird. My bf was the same. I respected it because to him our son was right their while we were having sex it made him uncomfortable. Just like in the beginning when I was uncomfortable and it hurt during sex he respected it and never pressured me. Sex is good for labor because of the sperm but inserting epo is just as good.
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take care of business on your own lol. but for real, tell him 1) these are his last chances to have sex with you and not worry ab getting you pregnant. 2) tell him if he's had sex with you all along until now, whats so different? 3)bring up something he's asked you to do that made you feel uncomfortable, so now its his turn.
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Buy a new nighty that opens in the front that way it works after baby to. I could not go with no sex just wish my hubby would stick to one time a day.
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Rape him! Lol, do something sexy like put lotion on your breasts because they "feel dry"while he watches, most man cant say no to that ;)
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