arguing

[Emmajane191]

Since ive found out im pregnant all me and my partner seem to do is argue and its getting to the point where i just wanna walk he doesn't listen to me when i try and tell him how i feel and its getting me down he already has a kid to someone else and he wont tell his son im pregnant just incase it upsets him what am i ment to do???

[specialmom]

Well, I'd lay off what he is and isn't supposed to do with a little boy.  He knows his son and is worried.

He doesn't sound excited about the pregnancy.  Are you two living together?  Been dating long?  

[MrsHamilton0215]

Girl Id accidentally mention the baby how far are you... How old is the Lil boy ... He needs to tell him no matter if he will like it or not because the baby is coming either way .... Do the boys mom know what about his family I'd be talking on my phone about my baby in front of the kid ... N ur right the conversation about it isbetween him n his son but you do not have to hide ur pregnancy because of him not wanting to say anything ... U Dont have to be like hey (sons name ) are u ready to have a brother or a sister ... Just Dont reframe from you joy n conversation about it in front of him

[Emmajane191]

We got a few bits but hes putting them away for wen his son comes i feel like i shud tell his son but its not my place 2 tell him i just feel like me and this baby aint important to him

[MrsHamilton0215]

He I buy some baby stuff gender neutral so his son can see it an get use to it

[Emmajane191]

Ive tryed to tell him but he says its his son and he will tell him when hes ready but its gettin me down and we always argue over the same things x

[MrsHamilton0215]

Tell him ur baby isn't a secret

[MrsHamilton0215]

He needs to let him know that he's having a sibling even if it will upset him he should be slowly eased into it