being selfish?

[babysaavedra1]

My boyfriend is deciding if he should reinlist in the navy or get out. But if he stays in we might have to move else were. I know your probly gonna say I knew what I was getting into before we got together but I just dont wanna move away from family and friends. And he knew how I felt all along before even getting pregnant. I just want some advice. Please dont be rude about it.

[B1128]

What are your fears? Are there specific reasons why you dont want to move, other then family and friends?

Weigh out your options. But also know that its okay, and if you are scared because of you having a baby and the possibility of not having anyone around, know that you can do it. Its scary of course, but they can also come to see you. They can come to help you and be there for the first week or two. Know that if you choose to move, you can do this. Trust me, you can do this.

Him choosing to stay, is a future investment. Its security, stability, insurance for the family. You will live comfortably without struggle. If he's considering and you're not sure, also consider these things too honey and what all it has to offer.

[suggsbaby]

Thats his choise, pluse you dont have to go with him if he moves again u can stay with family until the baby comes and he can get leave to come back in time for the birth