sister pregnant and changed

[heim19002]

I am 25 years old and I have a one year old son. I am posting this for some feedback from others so thank you in advance. I have a fiancé and I'm blessed enough to be a stay at home mom while my fiancé provides a very nice life style for us. My sister who I never had a problem with is 6 month pregnant and only knows her bf for about 7 months. She is 22 years old. I literally bought her baby boy everything she needed for him including beds/bottles/swings etc. She was happy that I did that for her. But about a week ago I seen her at 7 pm she was find then at 11 pm something went wrong and she switched like a light switch n now hates me and said such hateful stuff to me. Completely out of nowhere. And now is attacking verbally my parents saying she don't need any of us and she will have her own family soon. I think her bf has a lot to do with this. I just don't understand what could of went so wrong in a couple hours for her to hate me and my parents and want Nothing to do with us. It has been awhile now still no sign of being sorry a tiny bit. Any thoughts?

[heim19002]

Thanks both of yous

[Mommysboys2]

Love is blind! She will get a reality check...its gonna suck for her but maybe she needs one...just when her reality hits all you can do is be there.

[marindamqz]

Heck yeah, especially because they started having sex so soon. It has to be him blinding her.

[heim19002]

Omg I'm sorry to hear all that..one other thing I didn't mention when my sisters bf would see my mom he would say "I'll never leave your daughter" like creepy he said it over and over again...do u think he could be controlling her

[marindamqz]

Nooooo, my older sister is as selfish as can be. I'm 23 and she's 25, and I'm the stable one! Lol I work, my hubby works, we can spoil ourselves from time to time, and I provided most of what her son needed. She's the same way, she disrespectful and ungrateful. She's physically fought my mom before! But, she just had a downfall with her bf the other day. He beat her and she needed her family, so I was there of course. When our sisters get older, they'll realize their ways.

[heim19002]

Thanks so much...I was starting to think I was the crazy one lol

[marindamqz]

I have an older sister who is that exact same way, but when they need you, they need you. You bought everything she needed, but don't let that blind you. Right now she's blind to the world and she thinks everything is happy and easy, she's wrong. And when she falls, she needs someone to be there.

[heim19002]

But do u take back someone who u helped so much and then basically said **** you to my whole family I just don't get it thanks for ur input

[marindamqz]

If only she knew the real world :/ it's gotta be him. And she thinks this is her happily ever after, but it's not. Not when she got pregnant so quick. I'd say just leave her be, let her know you love and will always be there, but don't force it and so on enough she'll see.