em i being a mean person?

[delizzzo delizzzzzo]

Ok well im married with a toddler and a baby on the way my husband and i are living in an apartment intill we save up to buy a house well about 6 months ago his brother has been staying with us due to the fact he was far from his job and is carless and his job is really close to us so he moved in and was planning on moving out once he got fulltime well he got fired from that job and i feel sins hes not working there anymore he should move back with his mom he took our toddlers room so im pretty crowded in mine with all the toys and sins hes been here we dont have much privacy or romantic alone time its already hard with a toddler well i just want him to move out i want my privacy and we need the space with new baby on the way so em i just being a mean person and may i add he got fired cuz of his fault

[Sxl0072412]

Lmfao I'm with watermelon! I totally would go over and kick them out! Like for real! It's not even for the drama or anything it's funny like really they don't understand they shouldn't be "cockblocking" It may make you look like the bad guy for a while but oh well they will get over it and understand at some point. You were nice for 6 months but it's time to go, even if he gets a job it's not okay for him to live with yall anymore.  
And your husband needs to take your side because he married you and should have your back before anyone else including family.
I had my little sister stay with us sometimes but I drew the line what she could wear around my husband, she had to wash dishes take trash out etc but once my husband said he was tired of her I just had to tell her to go home lol I won't let anyone come before my marriage brothers and sisters fight so your husband should man up and not be afraid of his own brothers. Yea we love each other but yall got to go I need to miss yall lol
Or ask during dinner in front of everyone hey so blank when do you think you'll move back to your moms because WE (include husbands name) want to start making the room a nursery before the end of the month/weekend(give a date). Be firm and put him on the spot. Keep us updated

[watermelon15]

Then walk in there and say get out. You have until Monday morning. If  he has a job or not he is not your responsibility, your kids are. Girl if you were in texas I would come over there for you. My hormones scare me sometimes.

[delizzzo delizzzzzo]

Im so tired of this i really want my sexlife back my privacy and my home back cuz i feel like this isnt my home anymore and if they dont leave soon its gunna start causing problems in my marriage cuz it already is and i do need that room back my kid cnt really play with all the toys cuz we had to put alot away due to space..but ima ralk to my hubby to see if he helps if not im gunna have to fix this mess cuz i cnt take anymore i talked to MIL but she didnt help at all shes just happy to have them out of her house but we are young early 20s tryna get on our feet we cnt be supporting two guys

[figaro08j]

He needs to go. Or give him a dead line to find another job. His bed room is not free. You and your husband is paying for it.  

[pointofview]

Sorry auto correct lol .

Good luck!! :)

[pointofview]

Yeah put all of your toddler stuff back in the room .. I don't know why you took them out lol ... And if he ask why you are putting stuff in his room .. Just tell him its your toddler room and you are feeling cram in your room and walk away he doesn't need more explaining then that.. ^^ and so true invite your friends and family early in the mourning and be as loud as you can .. Don't clean up after him at all (if you are) ...... And hopefully he leave.. Cause I know how that feels it ***** ... Goog luck :)