feeling unloved

[lizz_jessica11]

I'm 39 weeks I have 5days left and I feel so detached emotionally from my boyfriend, I have no patience with him anymore..we were cuddling, but he fell asleep and for some reason it made me so mad. And then all of a sudden I just felt so disgusted with him over something stupid he said to me in the past about Asian women and I started crying cause I felt like he has an a fetish and doesn't want me.. I don't know I think I'm going crazy.. I just feel like we don't love each other the same anymore, even though he tells me all the time. I just wish I liked to be touched or hugged..I feel so uncomfortable with my body, I want to be normal and happy again..

[lizz_jessica11]

Yes I do the same thing! You just gotta remind yourself that your pregnant and edgey

[brandylynn95]

Thats true ! I have no reason to think he hasnt been faithful. Just so hard to not let it bother you and try to look the other way i used to be able to ignore but this last month its really been bothering me so i know its just the hormones and ill stop freaking out so much once im back to normal

[lizz_jessica11]

Because i** bug him about loving me"

[lizz_jessica11]

Yeah I agree women love the chase and men love what they catch. But even if he did, I'm sure he and ANYONE else would realize giving up a family and all that isn't worth it for a one night stand. Even my boyfriend says that because u bug him about loving me and what not. And that "girl" hed think is women enough to take the guilt of that away would leave him high and dry. Because they both cheat to be in a relationship what does he think shell be faithful? Um no. Lol. Let him dig that grave girl.. I know its still in the back of your mind like what if he cheats cause its in mine too..there's no stopping it so until you find out otherwise, youve got a faithful relationship with him

[brandylynn95]

Yeah it ***** i feel like he could leave me at any sec to go be with someone else and id be stuck alone becuase no other guy wants to be with a girl whos pregnant with someone elses kid. Or has a kid. Women dont care if a man has a child on the way with another women or not theyd still try to get with him.

[lizz_jessica11]

Can't wait to have my body back too.

[lizz_jessica11]

But its funny my boyfriend thought porn was okay but. I sent a pic of this cute guy in his tighty whites to my friend and he said how ugly it made him feel and blah blah blah, I told him I GUESS YOU KNOW HOW IT FEELS!?

[lizz_jessica11]

In the beginning my boyfriend started watching porn and lied I freaked out on him. Because its not fair that I'm stuck going through this and nothing changes for him he can go do whatever. That's not right ..I do feel ugly because of that. Its like men don't care as long as the get what they need out of it. Why worry about something that's not happening to them, out if site of mind. It sounds like our boyfriends need a reality check cause there won't be much porn or sex whenever they baby is out andtaking all aattention. So you'd think they'd utilize this time they have wisely with the girl the love

[brandylynn95]

Ive been crying myself to sleep every night for the past two weeks... i feel so ugly and i cant wait to have my body back

[brandylynn95]

See i started to think that but i know he watches porn so it makes me feel like hed rather use his hand then actually have sex with me

[Lennyxo]

I think it's completely normal to feel unattractive that's just  us tho cus we are growing a baby and gaining weight. I completely understand I hate having sex with my bf now cus I feel like he's not enjoying it sense I'm just laying that and I can't go all out there and be sexy with my big belly. I'm 39+4. I've been feeling like were soooooo distant :( and like he's whatevers when I'm telling him bout something exciting he just don't care.... Just yesterday he followed a page on twitter with naked girls tbh it bothered me sooooo much I felt fat ANd unattractive....): I started to cry ):

[lizz_jessica11]

Yeah, its weird. Most women aren't horny during pregnancy and the men are. Its seems you've switched roles like he's getting pregnancy symptoms you know? I've heard of that. Idk if its true but I'd definitely talk to him girl.

[brandylynn95]

Im not good at the whole trying to be sexy thing. But ive tried all of his biggest turn ons and all i get is turned down and i always thought the wetter you are the better

[lizz_jessica11]

I think you need to address this, he doesn't realize he probably hurt your feelings really bad?.

[lizz_jessica11]

Trust me its not you. And if he doesn't like the way you are that's awful cause that's your child and he pretty much made you that way. Men these days are so cruel sometimes. They don't take how our self esteem is in the gutter..

[lizz_jessica11]

I always ask my boyfriend if I'm ugly and fat and if he wants someone else. It bothers me to go out in public because I feel like he looks at other girls and says to himself *must be nice* idk being pregnant is a confidence killer. I mean he's never not tried to touch me, its him that's horny not me. I feel like if I see a d**k I'll thrown up. That is very weird I've never heard of a guy turning sex down. Maybe he's just nervous, or maybe you need to try something sexier like suprise him in a robe?

[brandylynn95]

I am going through the same thing! I dont know what to do. Im only 34 weeks. But my boyfriend just doesnt want touch me at all. I just want him to want to touch. Ive tried everything to get him to have sex with me and he wont he told me it feels like nothing because im so wet(sorry tmi) but its making me feel really lonely like nobody wants to be around me anymore. I love him so much but i feel like hed rather be with someone else, someone who isnt huge and pregnant :(