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hoping baby doesnt feel as alone as i do

My boyfriend of 4 years realized he no longer has feelings for me, ive been pretty depressed since he told me and although he says he will be here for baby i cant help but feel so sad i know i should stay positive but all i can think about is my child going through the same amount of pain i am and growing up in split homes :( any words of inspiration for me
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10504858 tn?1423544346
Wow, I know what you mean with the confusion. My boyfriend is the same way. Sometimes he talks about the future and he's happy, others he acts like he wants nothing to do with me. And I know. Pregnancy is hard enough with your man there, let alone being alone. It would be nice if they understood that
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Thank you im trying to stay positive hes already involved with someone else but he still talks about a future with me its so confusing and hard especially because he was my only support system
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10504858 tn?1423544346
Keep your head up, Mama. I'm going through a similar situation, I came home from work one day and my boyfriend had packed his stuff and went to his Dad's. We've talked since and sometimes I feel it getting better and sometimes worse, so it's extremely hard on me right now. But I have so many mommy friends who lost their boyfriend during their pregnancy (I mean, it's hard on any relationship) and then were able to work things out once the baby was born. This is the only hope I have right now so I'm hanging on to it. Good luck with you guys !
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