Aa
this can't be life
My mom like my babyfather now and she asked him to come to thanksgiving.... oh joy ----->(-_-) my face now smh can this be for real
mimi, I don't get this either, at all.
You are carrying his baby, still having sex with him, keep hinting you want him to marry you but you don't want him there to eat turkey.
Your relationship with him is as intimate as you can get. If you're mad at him about a DNA test stop having sex with him. Eating turkey with him is still okay.
You are carrying his baby, still having sex with him, keep hinting you want him to marry you but you don't want him there to eat turkey.
Your relationship with him is as intimate as you can get. If you're mad at him about a DNA test stop having sex with him. Eating turkey with him is still okay.
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This is always kind of strange to me. The man who is the father of your child is someone you don't want your family to know? It is never a good idea to compartmentalize your life. It means that your relationship isn't on solid ground.
A DNA test request is probably insulting to you. But perhaps it has to do with things that have happened to him in the past, things that have happened to buddies of his, things his parents have told him. It's a simple request and once done . . . solidifies everything. And if you two were to ever break up (assuming you are still together) --- you'd need one anyway for court and child support. So, it will be done forever and there will be no question.
But, combining your life into one unit is a good thing. His being liked by your mom is a good thing. His knowing your family is a good thing. If you are insecure about what they'll think of him, what he'll think of them, how you'll feel when they all get together and meet, you must ask yourself where that insecurity comes from.
good luck
A DNA test request is probably insulting to you. But perhaps it has to do with things that have happened to him in the past, things that have happened to buddies of his, things his parents have told him. It's a simple request and once done . . . solidifies everything. And if you two were to ever break up (assuming you are still together) --- you'd need one anyway for court and child support. So, it will be done forever and there will be no question.
But, combining your life into one unit is a good thing. His being liked by your mom is a good thing. His knowing your family is a good thing. If you are insecure about what they'll think of him, what he'll think of them, how you'll feel when they all get together and meet, you must ask yourself where that insecurity comes from.
good luck
I justdont want my whole family knowing him ccause he wants a DNA done im not mad just weird out
Soumfd likr she foesnt likr him or wamt him there but her.mom invited him anyways?!??
Completely confused by this post. Do you want the drama of family not liking your child's father? That will just cause stress later on for the child. Your family liking the father will make things easier for the child.
Why u mad ??? My mom hates my baby father but I cnt blame her
Why u mad ??? My mom hates my baby father but I cnt blame her
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