Need some support

[Della12]

Sorry if this is not related to this forum but feeling extremely upset, crying and trying my best to stay calm for my baby's sake.  But how to I keep the tears away.  So I basically got told tonight by my boyfriend of 6 years that I'll probably end up raising my child on my own and that he doesn't feel now that he wants to marry me,  will probably be a mistake. This after we've spent the last 6 years as best friends,  doing everything together, having the best and most ridiculous memories ever,  even working together as partners. Also a few weeks back we were discussing our special day and future.  Now all if the sudden his very edgy,  wants to know nothing. I cannot understand what I've done wrong. He seems very impatient this last few weeks especially. Maybe because I've changed a hit accommodating for the pregnancy I don't t know  or maybe my forgetfulness at times. I am only human.  It feels like my whole world just came crashing down and I pray Nd hope my dear baby will be okay. I don't know what to do.  But any advice will be highly appreciated.  It's 1am in the morning and I need to get up early for work. I also have a highly important role at work.  So this doesn't help my soul or baby's much. I love him so dearly.  I hope things changes for the better. Sorry for venting

[Laurennn1122]

Good luck with everything xxx

[Della12]

Thank you very much Lauren I will do that xxxxx sweet dreams and all the best to you as well

[Laurennn1122]

Have you got a family member or close friend you can go to? Your lucky to find out so early what your having I didn't find out till 20 weeks! Just take this a day at a time he could be feeling really stressed! He could just be scared try asking were it has all come from when you have both calmed down if anything you will hopefully get some answers and be able to focus on your little boy xxx

[Laurennn1122]

Have you got a family member or close friend you can go to? Your lucky to find out so early what your having I didn't find out till 20 weeks! Just take this a day at a time he could be feeling really stressed! He could just be scared try asking were it has all come from when you have both calmed down if anything you will hopefully get some answers and be able to focus on your little boy xxx

[Della12]

I'm 14w3d, so still have a while to go and it's a boy :) xxx so far everything been going good.  Had some scares but all seems normal. Can only be thankful and hope for the best.  

[Laurennn1122]

I'm sure everything will be fine with the little one! Try focus on her/him to help keep your mind of this your clearly ready for this☺ how far on are you xxx

[Della12]

Thank you Lauren for your kind message appreciate it,  I'll see how it goes from tomorrow.  I pray constantly that everything will be better than today.  Let's wait and see. But I have a little human to take care of.  Hope I'm not harming my baby currently xxxx

[Laurennn1122]

No idea how your feeling but really  sorry to hear this maybe he really just isn't ready and the more pregnant you are the worse he's got! The main thing is your there to care for your baby ☺ no idea how you will be feeling but I'd try get sleep go to work keep everything normal stress is so bad! My pervious pregnancy went bad with stress! As long as you & your baby are safe & healthy that's all that should matter I'm sure you'll be amazing! Sorry tired to help