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I Dont want my bd to miss out on our daughters life but I'm so hurt n embarrassed I just want to move to Florida wit my aunt I been feeling so depressed through out my pregnancy its not helping that my bd left me high n dry I have nothing for my baby or self an now he leaves us like this I just want to run n run far
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Good luck sweetie!! Prayers!!!
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I plan on leaving after my baby shower on the 21st
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Stop messing with your baby daddy and move to Florida. You can't force him to be a part of your baby's life, it's sad but true. If he really wants to be there for your baby he will do whatever he can for her but if you keep sleeping with him and acting desperate you're just showing him you're weak and he can treat you however he wants. Stop making posts sweetie and actually do something about it. I know it hurts but this isn't about you anymore it's about your daughter and you don't want her growing up around that bs
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I've felt like that before. My cousin lives in Florida and I've thought about moving down there with her, but all of my family is up here in ohio. Youd like to be as far away as possible when somebody you love very much hurts you, but you gotta show him that you aint phased by it and that you can do you all by yourself. Make him see what he lost. I wish you all the luck in the world and i hope you make the right choice girl.
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Ugh, I'm so sorry you are going through this.  I just don't get people sometimes . . .   why is it once a woman is pregnant a guy decides he doesn't want to be with her.  Very frustrating.  And now you have so much to figure out and deal with and I am truly sorry about that.  Life is so stressful sometimes we wonder how we'll manage.  But then things start to go in a different direction, often a BETTER direction, and we feel better.

This is a rough one.  I know that it is in the best interest for a child to have both parents in their life whether they are together or not.  BUT, you are going to be on your own.  If you have support somewhere else, that is hard not to go get!!  

Would it be better for you in terms of ability to live, afford living alone, having helping hands for the baby, etc if you move?
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