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overreacting?

Would you be hurt if you kept finding naked pics of girls on your bfs or husband's computer?  He doesn't even try to hide it from me anymore. I'm so hurt almost 37 weeks pregnant huge unattractive. What to do? I just act like it doesn't bother me then go into a room and cry.
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It's not porn and it's not in his history it's in a folder in his computer.  It's girls he used to talk to before or sleep with and some porn. I just pretend I'm not sad because some of you say you'd leave but I'm due this month where am I going to go and divorce over pics? That's a bit much I think
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Ish ish,  no don't give him the pleasure of enjoying such stuff since you're pregnant!! Oh No. Ad put up a fight and command an explanation. It's always a two way street. Please stand up for your dignity. :) good luck dear.
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Or I would delete it and see what he does. If he confronts me the bitter truth is that he doesn't care about me. It should not offend him since I am there and he should see me and only me. Oh dear
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Umm id delete all those pics if they weren't porn. My man knows better not to have any ex gf pics! Thats messed up. Id delete them and not say a thing. If he brings it up id say you should have never kept them. Thats disrespectful.
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Iya Hun.  Am 14 weeks along and I keep finding naked pics of girls with a perfect body on my boyfriends phone I have asked him to delete them but am to scared to ask him if he has as I don't want to cause a arguement I don't think your over reacting at all be brave and if your not happy ask him to delete them in front of you and I highly doubt your unattractive I don't know what you look like but I can tell your beautiful xxx
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Listen my husband and I have been married for over 5 years and the only porn allowed is the stuff we watch together! My husband loves me pregnant. Can't keep his hands off of me! And if your husband is keeping his hands on his pants and his eyes on other women it's the same as cheating because sweetheart he's not thinking of you. To me he might as well be screwing someone else because that's basically what he's doing. Exes are ridiculously off limits. That's why they are exes right?!? So what if you are about to give birth? Ask yourself if it's a boy would you want him to treat his wife like that and if it's a girl would you want her husband to do this to her??
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