Talk to him my bfs the same he gets mad takes it out on me, finally there was a day where i cried for a whole 30 minutes and ever since that day he's stopped or at least does less of it
My husband has always been a picker, must be a guy thing. Get bored & push your wife's buttons for ***** and giggles. However he has been very careful not to take it to far since one day early in thus pregnancy he was on a roll, thinking he was hilarious and looked up to see my hormonal self full on ugly crying. That's all it took. The man can't handle tears and will do anything to make,them stop and not come back. I'm sure he'll catch up on missed button pushing after they baby comes but tears got me a free pass for a little while anyway.
I'm in the same boat. I have not found anything to get him to stop. Stress reliever is a nice long hot shower or a nap