Do you feel like it's pointless to have him there because of lack of support?? That's what it sounds like.
He is never around.. Never feels her our watches her move.. Why should be get to watch her be born.. He has never spent a penny on her.. Nor our son, who is 19mths.. Changes are, he won't even be contactable if and When i go into labor cuz he never answers his phone.. So ya, just pointless in general.
Really ***** to say but if you have no expectations of him then you wont be dissapointed! If i were in your shoes id plan for him not to be there and if he happens to, then thats a plus! Once yoy see baby then youll be soo distracted you wont even notice he's missin!
^^^ They star'd out s.u.c.k.s lol stupid app!!
Hey mommy to be I completely feel you. Dont worry you are not alone I am or was rather in the aame situation. I am supposed to be 40weeks today but my Princess is already 5 days old. I also didnt tell yhe daddy for the same reasons u have. She came in the morning and I told him in the afternoon when all my family knows. Still today he hasnt bothered to come see his baby and I dony even feel he is not there. When your baby comes you will be soo inlove u wont be thinkin about anything else. Good luck and plz go ahead and plan your labour without him. I was with my sister in the labour ward and I could not have been with anyone better!!
Im plannin on having my twin be the first to know (if hes gone when it happens) and in that case she will be in the delivery room. Csection.. Her husband was on a deployment when her baby was born and she let me be there for every ultrasound amd delivery.. Was the most amazing thing. So maybe itll turn Out that ill get to return the favor....
He left me at home last night, ON VDAY, and didnt even come home.. He speaks for himself on how pathetic he is.
I haven't talked to or seen mine since I was like 2 months. I'm 7 1/2 now. So Yea,POINTLESS. He'll have to hear about it thru tha grapevine cus he is UNINVITED. Hmph
I hope mine isn't there either just Bc I feel like it's my own personal private experience and I can just see him now saying something is gross or getting irritated if it takes too long. Lol
He just did he don't care if He's there or not, so I'm happy! Just means i don't have to deal with his two faced family either...
I just dont get it
Why are you still with him then?
Dont tell me because of the kids
I grow up in the family where my mom stayed just because of us
And it was horible