help please

[mee25]

My sis in law is pregnant. My brother and her recently got married. Now the issue is that he does not want to keep tge baby but my sis in law is against it. He even told my sis not to reveal her pregnancy to anyone. She is lost and is helpless. Please give me some advice how to reason with my bro and to save that little one.

[mee25]

She lost her baby at 6 months.

[AnnieBrooke]

Is this his baby or was she already pregnant when he married her?  There are issues you might not even know, in this argument.  As special says, it's her discussion to have with him.  If you are prepared to, you could offer to adopt the child, but that is the only input I would offer in the situation.

[specialmom]

Hi.  In all honesty, this is between the two of them.  It would be inappropriate for you to try to insert your opinion into their situation.  She is against termination but he would like her to abort.  This is for THEM to figure out what is the best plan for them.  They need to discuss this.  Perhaps he feels it is a bad time and that is his right to have these feelings and be honest with his WIFE.  So he and his wife must work it out.  This is a time for sisters and loved ones, although well meaning, to allow them to make their own decisions and live their own life.  good luck

[mee25]

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