Lost?

[Jaccq01]

So there's this guy I've been seeing for couple months now. We're not boyfriend and girlfriend, just 2 friends that hangs out. Yes, sex was involve and now I'm 10 weeks pregnant. I actually found out when I was 7 weeks, didn't know I was pregnant. The minute I found out, I told him about it, and things been rocky since then. He's also been negative since then. He doesn't want the child at all. He says I'm selfish for not wanting to abort the baby, and I'm ruining his life by keeping it. His exact words, "I'm forcing this on him". I was forward on keeping the baby and doing it without him, but I do have family issues, and I know for a fact my family will not support me. I like this guy a lot, and I would like us to be a family and raise our baby together, but because we're not together, so our situation is complicated. He says he's not ready and wants to make money first and when he ready he'll make a baby. So now I'm the selfish one here who doesn't want to make him happy. :(

[chillax321]

If he's gonna be like that he's not worth being with because hel be the same in the future, you should surround yourself with positive people and try start up parenting classes and meet a few people ur own age and try be more positive focus on how ur life will change for the better when baby is here and how u will feel loved, wanted and feel like u serve a purpose in life no one is ever sure there ready for a baby everyone doubts and worry that things won't work out but they will everything always works out in the end

[Jaccq01]

I doubt he'll come around. He said he's putting his feet down with his decision of not wanting it and he's going to stick to it no matter what. This pregnancy has taken a toll on me. I'm so depress and sad. I can't even take about the baby to him because he's get really upset. 3 weeks in and he hasn't even tried to see any positive from it. I've been so depress that now I'm leaning towards having an abortion. I know it sounds really selfish, but idk how else to think anymore. :(

[Jaccq01]

I doubt he'll come around. He said he's putting his feet down with his decision of not wanting it and he's going to stick to it no matter what. This pregnancy has taken a toll on me. I'm so depress and sad. I can't even take about the baby to him because he's get really upset. 3 weeks in and he hasn't even tried to see any positive from it. I've been so depress that now I'm leaning towards having an abortion. I know it sounds really selfish, but idk how else to think anymore. :(

[chillax321]

Keep your baby and things will work out for u he will love baby when it's born if not he's not worth it but I'm sure he's just a bit overwhelmed right now and doesn't know how to take it and has a lot of worry about what would happen or what people would think and I'm sure ur family will come around after a while and they will support u if not there's always adoption if u can't cope, everything happens for a reason and there's always a solution to every problem